TheSolitaryMan
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There was this party recently with this girl I have a bit of a crush on there. She invited me along completely out of the blue, so I didn't really know anyone.
Anyway, I spent most of the evening getting to know all these friends of her's. At one point, I was talking to someone I'd just met and eventually he surprised me by suddenly suggesting (pretty strongly) that I should ask out the girl that invited me. Feeling bolstered by that, I started talking to her more. At one point in the evening we were actually sharing a plate of food together and stuff, and there was a lot of arm-touching going on.
So...time comes to leave, and I want to perhaps ask her if she wants to meet up, but not in a completely left-of-field surprise way. I start to think about what to say.
Suddenly this other girl who I only talked to for about 5 minutes comes over and insists on giving me her number. She was very drunk, so it took her literally ten minutes to key it in (under the name "Sex" no less!), and the whole time I felt awkward. Anyway, I said bye to her and go over to the other girl to say goodbye.
I was a little drunk, I gave her a big hug and I think I kissed her cheek too. Then she said we'll meet soon and...that was it. I totally failed to ask for her number! I didn't even plan anything out with her. That was weeks ago, and now I feel a bit lame about it. I can't believe I ended up with the number of someone totally random instead of the girl I've known for a while and have an interest in :\
What's more, she saw that random girl giving me the number and probably thought I liked her or something. Do you think I acted like a bit of a dick here, or was it just rather poor timing and a case of post-hug brainfreeze?
Anyway, I spent most of the evening getting to know all these friends of her's. At one point, I was talking to someone I'd just met and eventually he surprised me by suddenly suggesting (pretty strongly) that I should ask out the girl that invited me. Feeling bolstered by that, I started talking to her more. At one point in the evening we were actually sharing a plate of food together and stuff, and there was a lot of arm-touching going on.
So...time comes to leave, and I want to perhaps ask her if she wants to meet up, but not in a completely left-of-field surprise way. I start to think about what to say.
Suddenly this other girl who I only talked to for about 5 minutes comes over and insists on giving me her number. She was very drunk, so it took her literally ten minutes to key it in (under the name "Sex" no less!), and the whole time I felt awkward. Anyway, I said bye to her and go over to the other girl to say goodbye.
I was a little drunk, I gave her a big hug and I think I kissed her cheek too. Then she said we'll meet soon and...that was it. I totally failed to ask for her number! I didn't even plan anything out with her. That was weeks ago, and now I feel a bit lame about it. I can't believe I ended up with the number of someone totally random instead of the girl I've known for a while and have an interest in :\
What's more, she saw that random girl giving me the number and probably thought I liked her or something. Do you think I acted like a bit of a dick here, or was it just rather poor timing and a case of post-hug brainfreeze?