I've got to be honest here- you show no class and I honestly pity anyone who ends up dating/being with you. It's kind of creepy that you hacked her accounts- if things felt wrong you should have just backed away. You further go on to post her name and country of origin- very tactless.
By no means am I defending this girl, her actions (as described by you) weren't cool but the lack of maturity you continue to show (this happened in June 2008- almost 5 years ago!!!!) by going on about it and continuing to drag her name through the mud is appalling. Get over it already!
This wasn't a "....true sad love story....", this is a revelation about two deceptive people who lack things essential to a relationship- trust, honesty, tact, commitment.....