RockerChick
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So I am kind of between a rock and a hard place. One of my best friends (a guy) starting dating this girl about 6 months ago. They are both fresh out of divorces. He is near 40 and she is almost 30. He is only her second boyfriend in life. She is incredibly book smart, but that is pretty much all she has to offer. Her personality sucks. She talks over people, she is the type that shoves her opinion down your throat (ex. A mature person says "I don't think that is weird" and she says "that IS NOT weird!") She refused to have sex with him for over 6 months, but they did dry hump (yes, they did. Don't worry, I shake my head at that too). She wont visit him or go to his house, he has to go to hers. She nags A LOT. I guess you guys get the picture. Anyway, the other day my friend and I were talking on the phone. She didn't agree with what we were saying and she grabbed the phone off of him and starting shoving her opinion down my throat, and never stopped talking. Basically never giving me that opportunity to tell her to stay in her lane and get out of our conversation. I have not been disrespected like that in a long time and it infuriated me to my core. My friend and I are on shaky ground, because in my opinion, he should have put her in her place, by making her aware that what she did was incredibly immature and disrespectful. But he is passive and will stay in a relationship simply because he doesnt want to be "alone".
I am considering letting the friendship go. I don't have immature people in my life, and as long as he is in my life, she has access to it. Am I wrong? I can't deal with that level of BS. Her and I have only met once, not enough to make her think it was okay to talk to me like that. I told my friend it's in his best interest to take her the other way if they ever see me in public (I have run into them twice over the last 6 months). I just feel like it's time to walk. I'm losing respect for my friend anyway. He needs to man up and control the situation when she gets out of control.
I am considering letting the friendship go. I don't have immature people in my life, and as long as he is in my life, she has access to it. Am I wrong? I can't deal with that level of BS. Her and I have only met once, not enough to make her think it was okay to talk to me like that. I told my friend it's in his best interest to take her the other way if they ever see me in public (I have run into them twice over the last 6 months). I just feel like it's time to walk. I'm losing respect for my friend anyway. He needs to man up and control the situation when she gets out of control.