hello everyone :)

[introvert925]

I was actually googling for stuff to do alone when I came across this website and it sounds like my cup of tea. A little about myself...I'm a 25 year old guy from Boston, MA. I have a girlfriend whom I love so I'm not looking for a relationship....don't know if that "disqualifies" me from being lonely

As you can probably tell from my username, I'm an introvert in the sense that I enjoy being alone with my thoughts most of the time. I have a very small group of friends most of whom I don't hang out with too much. They usually invite me to parties and whatnot, but I have a terrible habit of first asking them who will be going, if it's a big group and/or a bunch of people I don't really know I will make up some excuse and not go. Unfortunately this most likely damages my friendships and prevents me from making new ones (ahhh...vicious cycles).

I must sound confused...on one hand I like being alone sometimes and on the other hand being alone has its drawbacks in terms of friends. I find it hard to balance the two sides. I'm also running out of places to go alone. My usual spot is Freeport,ME which is nice because of the 2 hour drive in solitude.

So, feel free to respond or just to say hi. I respect everyone's opinions and thoughts!

 

[Remedy]

Having a girlfriend does not disqualify you from being lonely and you'll see there are plenty of people in the same situation as you. Anyways though welcome to the forum and I hope you enjoy your stay .

 

[evanescencefan91]

hi introvert 925 welcome to the forum

i'm kinda an introvert too, i love my me time and i can actually be great company for myself

i mean eventually i do get lonely and want to go out wiht other people, but i am not really one for the loud party scence unless it's a really cool trancey club place with techno music and colored lights

but a quiet night with a book and a teddy bear and maybe a bowl of ice cream is just *sighs* priceless

well anyways welcome to the forum i hope you enjoy your stay here

 

[introvert925]

Yeah I was never really in to the clubbing scene either. I use to read a lot, I should probably get back in to that. My big thing has been watching past seasons of "The Office" and "Law and Order" until odd hours of the night....like right now.

 

[Minus]

Welcome to the forum.

 

[Steel]

Hey, and welcome.

 

[Zak]

Hey Welcome to the forum

 

[Luna]

Hey and welcome to the forums.

I think everyone has those moments of wanting some privacy - just to varying degrees.

 

[Punisher]

Hi introvert925