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Hi, I came here for some advice I think, or maybe just to tell my story to someone just to let it out.
Anyway, I'm a 21 year old guy. Used to have lots of friends, well not friends, buddys, people I hung out with and had good time with, but I wouldn't call them friends. A few years back I got into some trouble, decided to stay home for a few days, lay low, it was as simple as that. So I stayed home, I watched tv, played video games etc, had plenty to do. Days turned into days, days into months, months into years. I cut all contact with my friends, became completely isolated. I still went to school, where I'd meet people, but never made any close friends, and as soon as I'd walk out of school I'd go straight home. The thing is, I liked it. I was in that state for a few years. I liked being alone, had plenty of fun things to do at home and never felt the need to go out and be with other people. It only started to bother me about a year ago or so. I suddenly felt like I've had enough of this, as fun as it was, I suddenly wanted to get out, make friends, get a girlfriend etc. The problem is, I can't do that. I can't just go out and ask people to be my friends. I don't know how to do this. I feel like I've dug myself into a deep hole and now I can't climb my way out. I enjoyed being in that hole for a while, I'm ready to get out but I just can't, I don't know how. I've been depressed for about a year, recently my mother had passed away under tragic circumstances and I started considering suicide. I realize it's the stupidest thing I could possibly do, and I'd never do it, but I can't help feeling like death would be a relief. I used to be very optimistic about life, now I can't see a future for myself.
I realize that in reality I'm blessed. I have a roof over my head, I'm not hungry or poor and I have health (for now). I've had a rough life but I know there are so many unfortunate people in the world who would switch with me in an instant. It's just that I can't help feeling lonely and I can't seem to find a solution to that.
Thanks for listening.
Anyway, I'm a 21 year old guy. Used to have lots of friends, well not friends, buddys, people I hung out with and had good time with, but I wouldn't call them friends. A few years back I got into some trouble, decided to stay home for a few days, lay low, it was as simple as that. So I stayed home, I watched tv, played video games etc, had plenty to do. Days turned into days, days into months, months into years. I cut all contact with my friends, became completely isolated. I still went to school, where I'd meet people, but never made any close friends, and as soon as I'd walk out of school I'd go straight home. The thing is, I liked it. I was in that state for a few years. I liked being alone, had plenty of fun things to do at home and never felt the need to go out and be with other people. It only started to bother me about a year ago or so. I suddenly felt like I've had enough of this, as fun as it was, I suddenly wanted to get out, make friends, get a girlfriend etc. The problem is, I can't do that. I can't just go out and ask people to be my friends. I don't know how to do this. I feel like I've dug myself into a deep hole and now I can't climb my way out. I enjoyed being in that hole for a while, I'm ready to get out but I just can't, I don't know how. I've been depressed for about a year, recently my mother had passed away under tragic circumstances and I started considering suicide. I realize it's the stupidest thing I could possibly do, and I'd never do it, but I can't help feeling like death would be a relief. I used to be very optimistic about life, now I can't see a future for myself.
I realize that in reality I'm blessed. I have a roof over my head, I'm not hungry or poor and I have health (for now). I've had a rough life but I know there are so many unfortunate people in the world who would switch with me in an instant. It's just that I can't help feeling lonely and I can't seem to find a solution to that.
Thanks for listening.