el Jay
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(Despite the generic topic title, I'm asking only about the scenario below)
So there's this girl in a couple of my chemistry classes that I've been talking to more and more the past few weeks. She seems more responsive to me lately, and I don't know if this is just because of just becoming friends, or if she might be showing a little (just a little) interest in me.
I'm basically completely and totally blind to all but the most blatant signals, so I really have no idea of what would (or even could) constitute some sort of signal, much less whether it's just basically opening up to me as a friend, or indicating that she's interested in something more than that.
Anyone have any tips for how I could gauge potential interest, so as to avoid making a fool of myself?
Also looking for tips on how I could possibly ask her out, or suggest some elevation in our friendship without putting myself out there too much. I'm even worse at (successfully) doing that than I am at reading subtle signs.
For what it matters, she lives on campus and I commute (from like 5 minutes away). I'm also only 95% sure she's single, so a good way of divining the truth of that assumption would also be appreciated!
So there's this girl in a couple of my chemistry classes that I've been talking to more and more the past few weeks. She seems more responsive to me lately, and I don't know if this is just because of just becoming friends, or if she might be showing a little (just a little) interest in me.
I'm basically completely and totally blind to all but the most blatant signals, so I really have no idea of what would (or even could) constitute some sort of signal, much less whether it's just basically opening up to me as a friend, or indicating that she's interested in something more than that.
Anyone have any tips for how I could gauge potential interest, so as to avoid making a fool of myself?
Also looking for tips on how I could possibly ask her out, or suggest some elevation in our friendship without putting myself out there too much. I'm even worse at (successfully) doing that than I am at reading subtle signs.
For what it matters, she lives on campus and I commute (from like 5 minutes away). I'm also only 95% sure she's single, so a good way of divining the truth of that assumption would also be appreciated!