the-alchemist
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This one has been a tough cookie for me to crack. There have been a few times where a girl has been interested in me. I have also been interested in her but i fall into some sort of paralysis. Because of my messed up childhood I still have trust issues with people, and it is very hard for me to open up unless she really flirts alot with me.
Because of that, I have come off as either too agressive or too disinterested, or in most cases, too paralyzed to do anything. Instead I just sit there and overanalyze the situation, trying to figure out if she really likes me or not.
If I know that a girl likes me and I like her too, I just get paralyzed. Do I show interest? Should I restrain myself? Should I take the initiative? All these questions run through my head
It ******* sucks, because I've had such golden opportunities that bit the dust because I dropped the ball
Because of that, I have come off as either too agressive or too disinterested, or in most cases, too paralyzed to do anything. Instead I just sit there and overanalyze the situation, trying to figure out if she really likes me or not.
If I know that a girl likes me and I like her too, I just get paralyzed. Do I show interest? Should I restrain myself? Should I take the initiative? All these questions run through my head
It ******* sucks, because I've had such golden opportunities that bit the dust because I dropped the ball