Looks and financial stability and partly what kind of social life the guy has is all you females care about. Just like on the plentyoffish forum, every time a guy points out that the criteria men and women judge each other on are unfair, because women expect men to have good looks + financial stability (and a car) and other material items, plus they care about what kind of social life the guy has. The only thing men judge on a woman is looks. But even this isn't really the case nowadays, considering the fact that there are lots of guys out there who are involuntarily celibate and never had a girlfriend who don't really care if a girl looks like a celebrity or not but rather who she is as a person. But no, we can't do that. That's too shallow and perverted to you. If the guy has AVPD or social anxiety disorder and can't meet people to hang out with anywhere the girl will usually stereotype the guy out. That is totally wrong, and it should not be happening.
Us men are simple and don't need the superficial stuff, but women need the social confidence, social status, money, companionship, positivity, car, charm, and ambition. Then if a guy does have all that stuff, they may just find some petty way to write you off anyway.
"he lives with parents"
"he doesn't have a college degree"
"he has a mental disorder"
"he has no muscles"
Somehow, someway, women will always come back with some kind of feminist propaganda about how they have to look pretty, can't make much money, they make babies, blah blah blah. As if any of this stuff justifies being shallow. Pure shallow. Jaded from the soul. It's more like some kind of supremacist, power trip, that promotes bad behavior.
what's wrong with 2 people coming together and accepting who they are and moving forward? I'll tell you what, it's because it's not drama, and superficiality.
Everything today is LOOKS, and materialism. Read the thousands of posts from women on the plentyoffish forums. Oh wait, these must be robots saying this. It's not something straight from the horses mouth.