Misanthrope23
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okay so there's this girl...that became part of my class today (she missed the first class last week), and immediately i was interested in her. firstly because she was Asian lol (but really throughout my whole life i RARELY had Asians in my class i don't know why, and i like Asian culture) but anyway she seemed pretty cute, kinda shy but not entirely. i saw that she was wearing a necklace with a cross, so she might be religious, which may be a good thing (even though i'm a Muslim and she's probably a Christian, we are still allowed to be together). i have this intuition whenever i see people, like i know that they are deep down nice people versus mean/arrogant people. and she seems like a nice person. it's like a radar and she was at a high level (sounds so corny, but that's the best i can describe it haah), and it wasn't just because of looks. i feel like i'm very open when it comes to women, and feel that there isn't a specific "look" that i like. some might say that she's not as pretty, but i disagree. but really what it comes down to for me is personality, and interests, but anyway..
i'm too afraid to approach her! even at the end of class when everyone was discussing projects and conversing with each other, i was too shy to go up to her and greet her. when one of my partners asked what my name was, she heard it (the Asian girl) and smiled, but maybe that was a coincidence. this always happens to me. i finally get an opportunity to meet a potential person i'm interested in but i'm too shy to meet and become close to them. you don't know how many times i've regretted this. i just feel like they'll judge me harshly for who am i, or that i'll make a fool of myself. i have such low self-esteem. it's terrible.
how do you ask a girl out? i mean i know your not supposed to go up to them and immediately be like "hey i like you! wanna go on a date?" the words "i like you" (or to get REALLY courageous "i love you) are three of the hardest words for me to say. what should i say? going for coffee is too cliche for me, and i'm broke anyway, so what other options are there? i would like to know some of the steps into eventually asking someone out because i really suck at this some help would really be appreciated.
i'm too afraid to approach her! even at the end of class when everyone was discussing projects and conversing with each other, i was too shy to go up to her and greet her. when one of my partners asked what my name was, she heard it (the Asian girl) and smiled, but maybe that was a coincidence. this always happens to me. i finally get an opportunity to meet a potential person i'm interested in but i'm too shy to meet and become close to them. you don't know how many times i've regretted this. i just feel like they'll judge me harshly for who am i, or that i'll make a fool of myself. i have such low self-esteem. it's terrible.
how do you ask a girl out? i mean i know your not supposed to go up to them and immediately be like "hey i like you! wanna go on a date?" the words "i like you" (or to get REALLY courageous "i love you) are three of the hardest words for me to say. what should i say? going for coffee is too cliche for me, and i'm broke anyway, so what other options are there? i would like to know some of the steps into eventually asking someone out because i really suck at this some help would really be appreciated.