How to completely block the thought of a relationship from your mind?

[TheRealCallie]

That's another thing I don't understand. You say you want something, but yet you've either all but given up, honeysuckle on everything, play the "poor me, no one wants me because I'm horrible" or think you're better than everyone else.

If all you have is a negative and/or conceited attitude, of course you won't get anywhere. You've essentially defeated yourself.

 

[Xpendable]

The only way I can see to work fine is to be so busy with something that you completely forget everything else. That's probably why I have worlds in my head. I've to spend so much time alone that I had to force myself to be creative. One could try to write a novel or any type of literature; any type of art that requires lots of time. Try to learn an instrument or how to master a hard discipline. I've noticed that when I have to compose a full song I can spend all day not dedicating a single thought to anything else. I won't distract myself with the internet or porn, etc. That's why in the old ages no one was aware of depression or anxiety, you had to do so much just to survive that there's was no time to be sad. When you occupy yourself so much that you only exist for what you want to create. I'm seriously thinking about creating stuff into oblivion until someday I can lose all necessity for companionship and feel free once for all.