GioRocket
Well-known member
Hello, everybody
So, there's this girl, after spending all my life with no friends when I joined college she was my first real friend. Of course after spending so long without any friends in total loneliness, of course I developed feeling for her, she was my first real crush. Anyway, so that was about 5 years ago now. So as time when on, the crush faded and mellowed but I don't think it ever went away completely. But we have been friends for nearly five years now.
Well, earlier this week, she said she liked me, she said she had liked me for a while. I have never had a girlfriend, nobody has ever said that to me before. I was thrilled! Yay! Woo! We made plans, we had a date, for a few days I actually felt a little good about myself.
So yesterday, I got a text.
"Could we reschedule the date for some point in the future? I had a rough night, I'm still a little raw after my last break up, which was a month ago."
Now, just before the conversation in which she liked me, she said this break up was three months ago and that she was over it. So, I'm gonna assume this text is a lie. Right? I'm also going to assume "some point in the future" means never.
Ok, so, the facts: She said she liked me, she ask if I wanted to go out some time, she did all the "chasing" as it were. Why go back on it? Why would you do all that in the first place if you were "raw" from a break up?
Thanks for reading any help you could provide would be most welcome, like I said, this doesn't happen to me very often x)
So, there's this girl, after spending all my life with no friends when I joined college she was my first real friend. Of course after spending so long without any friends in total loneliness, of course I developed feeling for her, she was my first real crush. Anyway, so that was about 5 years ago now. So as time when on, the crush faded and mellowed but I don't think it ever went away completely. But we have been friends for nearly five years now.
Well, earlier this week, she said she liked me, she said she had liked me for a while. I have never had a girlfriend, nobody has ever said that to me before. I was thrilled! Yay! Woo! We made plans, we had a date, for a few days I actually felt a little good about myself.
So yesterday, I got a text.
"Could we reschedule the date for some point in the future? I had a rough night, I'm still a little raw after my last break up, which was a month ago."
Now, just before the conversation in which she liked me, she said this break up was three months ago and that she was over it. So, I'm gonna assume this text is a lie. Right? I'm also going to assume "some point in the future" means never.
Ok, so, the facts: She said she liked me, she ask if I wanted to go out some time, she did all the "chasing" as it were. Why go back on it? Why would you do all that in the first place if you were "raw" from a break up?
Thanks for reading any help you could provide would be most welcome, like I said, this doesn't happen to me very often x)