I have a boyfriend now

[SophiaGrace]

He seems super nice so far.

Yes. I just said that I'm in a relationship with a nice guy and I don't mean "nice guy".

So all the guys on here that bemoan the fact that nice guys never get relationships, can suck it.

 

[CM Vader]

What made you get with him? What are his qualities?

 

[theraab]

Congratulations Sophia!

 

[Runciter]

Indeed, congratulations!

 

[SophiaGrace]

What made you get with him? What are his qualities?

He's very intelligent to the point where I can't comprehend how intelligent he is, but he doesn't talk over my head and make me feel like I can't contribute to our conversations. He has a quirky sense of humor like I do. He seems to be loving and caring. When I brought up an issue, he took it seriously and respected my boundaries.
Respecting my boundaries added more reason for me to like him. So far I feel safe around him. He's progressive minded with a trans brother.

His hobbies are geeky, rather than going out to bars and drinking. More pluses.

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I found him on okcupid. We had a 94% match via our personalities. I messaged him because I liked how he wrote his profile. He's kinda shy.

 

[Tiina63]

I'm so happy for you. How did you meet? Was it at college?

 

[Locke]

Good for you, SophiaGrace!

 

[Lippy_Kid]

Aw congrats Soph.

Genuinely happy to hear that

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Congratulations Sophia!

 

[ladyforsaken]

Awwww Soph!!! I'm so happy for you, girl! Congrats. *hugs*
May things go smoothly and well for the both of you!

 

[SophiaGrace]

Congratulations Sophia!

Thanks.

He has long hair that he pulls back in a ponytail, just so you know.

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I'm so happy for you. How did you meet? Was it at college?

Okcupid.com

We had a high match percentage and I liked what he wrote in his profile. I approached him in PM.

 

[NightHawkJohn]

Congratulations Sophia, i am glad you have found a nice guy .

 

[lonelyfairy]

Yay! Congrats!!!

 

[Iceman1978]

Good for you Sophia.

 

[Peaches]

glad to hear these news

 

[Shipster0958]

 

[Retrospective81]

Conratulations Sophia, may it all go well. This only goes to show that nice us can find love. its just about being yourself and in the right place at the right time. I was very doubtful until I read this but I'm willing to take note and not get self pitiful about my situation.

 

[Alienated]

One question though... Does he know he has a girlfriend .... yet ?

Stalker....

 

[SophiaGrace]

One question though... Does he know he has a girlfriend .... yet ?

Stalker....

It says on fb we're in a relationship. He would have to approve that on his end, wouldn't he?

Besides, I think he'd like me stalking him.

 

[WallflowerGirl83]

I'm happy for your Sophie! =)
You deserve a great man.