NewOrder2016
Well-known member
I am going to talk about the effects of loneliness that had on me, and then I am going to let you say what you think.
I was alone since the age of 23 and 33 (I have turned 33 recently). I had no friends since that time. I didnt even realize that I entered a long stage of loneliness.
Since a young age, I didnt value relationships. I thought I could manage without them and they are unimportant, and even a waste of time and energy. I focused my energy on studying, working and hobbies (like watching movies, playing games and reading books). Video games played a good role in my loneliness, because they were like a painkiller or a drug relief. A session of a video gameplay would kill all loneliness or isolation that I felt.
What I feel today is this:
* Difficulty in forming relationships because I am a social inept.
* No memories of good things that happened. When you are a loner everyday is similar to the last so you cant remember what you did exactly when.
In my teens and beforehand, I had quite happy memories of the few people that I met.. even if they werent perfect.
* Sadness and lower value of life.
* Bad body language.
* Eccentric personality.
My advice is that, you shouldnt adapt a lonely life unless you really have to. Talk to people around you, even if they dont seem special. Develop superior social skills daily...
I was alone since the age of 23 and 33 (I have turned 33 recently). I had no friends since that time. I didnt even realize that I entered a long stage of loneliness.
Since a young age, I didnt value relationships. I thought I could manage without them and they are unimportant, and even a waste of time and energy. I focused my energy on studying, working and hobbies (like watching movies, playing games and reading books). Video games played a good role in my loneliness, because they were like a painkiller or a drug relief. A session of a video gameplay would kill all loneliness or isolation that I felt.
What I feel today is this:
* Difficulty in forming relationships because I am a social inept.
* No memories of good things that happened. When you are a loner everyday is similar to the last so you cant remember what you did exactly when.
In my teens and beforehand, I had quite happy memories of the few people that I met.. even if they werent perfect.
* Sadness and lower value of life.
* Bad body language.
* Eccentric personality.
My advice is that, you shouldnt adapt a lonely life unless you really have to. Talk to people around you, even if they dont seem special. Develop superior social skills daily...