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Retrospective81
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Evening everyone, hope you're all well.
So this week has had me thinking and feeling many different things. What's really important to me in life.
I have realised many things.
I have a lot to be happy with in my life after much deep thought and reflection. I have my health, a good home (even though I'm living with my mum and younger bro) quite a bit of disposable income.
I also have freedom, freedom from having a mortgage, bills and mouths to feed. Freedom to do whatever I want. Mostly, freedom to just focus on myself and improving my life and realising and unleashing my true potential and one day, improving other's lives.
Up until very recently, I used to feel I needed to have a girlfriend, a relationship or even marriage. I think after taking it well with the lady I met overseas on Skype who wanted to remain friends, I think I've finally overcome that 'need.' The 'need for 'love from another'. The need for affirmation and validation from a partner.
I feel like I've broken free from another chain. I feel at peace, and most importantly, FREE.
I want to take this oppurtunity to encourage others who are still struggling with wanting a partner. It's not easy I know, but try to live day by day and try and ask yourself some important questions. Try to do whatever is in your grasp to find positives in your life. Don't strive or try to see the things you are not ready to see. Take your time and acknowledge only the positives you can realistically accept at this time.
Have I given up on finding love? no, but I'm going to let it find me. my time will come in the future. But for now its all about me,. I have much work to be done still in my interactions with people in the real world. Today has been a good day atleast.
Best wishes to all who are reading this and struggling.
Thank you for reading.
So this week has had me thinking and feeling many different things. What's really important to me in life.
I have realised many things.
I have a lot to be happy with in my life after much deep thought and reflection. I have my health, a good home (even though I'm living with my mum and younger bro) quite a bit of disposable income.
I also have freedom, freedom from having a mortgage, bills and mouths to feed. Freedom to do whatever I want. Mostly, freedom to just focus on myself and improving my life and realising and unleashing my true potential and one day, improving other's lives.
Up until very recently, I used to feel I needed to have a girlfriend, a relationship or even marriage. I think after taking it well with the lady I met overseas on Skype who wanted to remain friends, I think I've finally overcome that 'need.' The 'need for 'love from another'. The need for affirmation and validation from a partner.
I feel like I've broken free from another chain. I feel at peace, and most importantly, FREE.
I want to take this oppurtunity to encourage others who are still struggling with wanting a partner. It's not easy I know, but try to live day by day and try and ask yourself some important questions. Try to do whatever is in your grasp to find positives in your life. Don't strive or try to see the things you are not ready to see. Take your time and acknowledge only the positives you can realistically accept at this time.
Have I given up on finding love? no, but I'm going to let it find me. my time will come in the future. But for now its all about me,. I have much work to be done still in my interactions with people in the real world. Today has been a good day atleast.
Best wishes to all who are reading this and struggling.
Thank you for reading.