I just want affection... so bad

[Rosebolt]

^ I don't drink coffee but i wouldn't at all mind to hang out with you.

Yes, i'm mostly the same.

 

[kamya]

Lack of affection is the main issue I face. The empty feeling when I come home at night.

 

[ABrokenMan]

Yep. I like myself and my alone time. But not all of the time.

 

[Tealeaf]

^ I don't drink coffee but i wouldn't at all mind to hang out with you.

Yes, i'm mostly the same.

Might be a good idea to clean your glasses and make sure you're talking to the right poster. Even on forums where I'm significantly more pleasant, nobody local shares your sentiment.

 

[Rosebolt]

Might be a good idea to clean your glasses and make sure you're talking to the right poster. Even on forums where I'm significantly more pleasant, nobody local shares your sentiment.

I could say the same.

 

[ardour]

Might be a good idea to clean your glasses and make sure you're talking to the right poster. Even on forums where I'm significantly more pleasant, nobody local shares your sentiment.

You don't seem that unpleasant.

 

[KAUSTIKKLIMAX]

Yes, genuine affection from a woman...I would have more chances to win the lottery than this, so yeah, I can relate to you guys too.

 

[Tealeaf]

Might be a good idea to clean your glasses and make sure you're talking to the right poster. Even on forums where I'm significantly more pleasant, nobody local shares your sentiment.

You don't seem that unpleasant.

But I clearly attract plenty of unpleasant attention, and no amount of pleasantness will make a fundamentally unappealing person appealing.

 

[wesam]

I can relate.. I don't remember the last time I got a hug from someone.
I get maybe a kiss on the check from my mom before I leave the house.

Sounds even more depressing by the time I'm writing it here.
It's a small desire but it can have a huge effect ..
I should find a hug buddy... I'd pay him/her.. Ok maybe not but it'd be nice to get a hug even from a stranger. can brighten up my whole week

I hope things get well for you bud

 

[Wanderer145]

I could do with some intimacy just someone to hold and them to hold me properly like they weren't going to let go. God I really miss that but I just scrunch up my duvet and it keeps me warm when I sleep...that's good enough for now.

 

[johnny196775Again]

When i get a pm i am ticked pink. Thank you everyone who has pm'ed me.

 

[Cornell Witte]

yep

I also really want to give affection, oh

...but I just scrunch up my duvet and it keeps me warm when I sleep...that's good enough for now.

lol, I shall admit to cuddling a large pillow... sometimes

 

[Need-help-meeting-up]

Affection, the power of a simple hug can not be underestimated. When ever i greet or say goodbye to my ex we all ways give each-other a hug, its a powerful signal being squeezed even though our relationship is over.

What i miss the most is a cuddle in bed, to fall asleep with the one you love in your arms that does it for me, that level of affection is what i seek. Maybe one day i will meet someone who sees me as a person and not a wheelchair.

 

[ninako]

Everyone here, please accept a big hug from a little girl >o< some people think it's funny how i can't reach my arms around them, but they can hold me without strain.

Some day I'd like to give you all hugs, but for now please imagine it and hopefully it brightens your day :>

 

[Shhhhh]

We're a lot of lonely people. I can relate as well.

I haven't felt true warmth from another person in a very long time. Thinking about romantic hugs makes me tear up a little.

 

[ardour]

You're male (OP), so you should be hesitant about stating something like "I want affection" or anything to that effect in real life.

We all know how that's going to be interpreted: creepy guy wants a full body hug under guise of loneliness.

 

[Sci-Fi]

You're male (OP), so you should be hesitant about stating something like "I want affection" or anything to that effect in real life.

We all know how that's going to interpreted: creepy guy wants a full body hug under guise of loneliness.

Really, you seem to be the first person to bring up such a remark in this thread. That might be your interpretation but it really doesn't seem to be the rest. Also, not always the case, unless you are wearing a trench coat with nothing under it.

 

[ardour]

Also, not always the case, unless you are wearing a trench coat with nothing under it.

I am, in fact.

Hug?

 

[Drew]

About 6 months ago I was with 3 young ladies who took me out. They were asking me questions and listening to my wisdom, each one wanting to hold my arm, or hand, almost competing for attention. We went shopping at the mall and they were asking my opinions on the clothes. They adored me and loved spending time with me. While at the mall, a couple more of their friends showed up and they too were interested in me and what I had to say. I felt so loved and warm and happy. And then... I woke up. Alone. In my bed. It was a dream and as soon as I realized it was a dream, it hit me so hard. The dream was everything that I want and crave and desire.

I have thought about going to strip clubs, not because of the nudity, but because instead of a lap dance, I want the lady to sit on my lap and rub my arms and run her hands through my hair. I have thought of hiring an escort, not for sex, just for affection.

Sometimes, I try to "accidentally" brush someone's hand as I am reaching for something or as I am handing them something. Just so I can feel just the smallest amount of contact.

 

[tdi200]

Drew, all i can do is relate to my world it all started the same way how you described please be careful you are now in a stage of doing anything to get that love and attention please do not do what i did, i used money to buy all that affection and love it felt good for some months until i looked back and see how much i am being used for money please do not do what i did!