MentatsGhoul
Well-known member
I'm just completely at a loss.
Nothing works. I've lowered my expectations. I'd settle for just a few dates, a one night stand even. Just going to clubs and parties and such- doesn't work. I've tried building my friendship network, I've got more friends than I know what to do with now. Still no prospect of a relationship. I even asked my female friends to help me meet people, maybe bring their friends over to our place (most of them are my flatmates), and they didn't really know what to do. Last year, I tried OkCupid, and, I honeysuckle you not, there was only a total of 12 girls in my age range (which I think I put as 18-23). This year (as per my recent thread) I tried Tinder. No luck whatsoever.
I'm gonna keep my Tinder profile up for a week or two after the next semester starts, since there will probably be much more active people during school days, but, if that doesn't work... I honestly don't know what next. And yes, I know, I know "Be patient, everything happens at its time". I know that. But... I don't know what to do to make it happen. It's something I want, need even at this stage. I'm turning 21 soon, and I've only had one (online) relationship. I just want to feel like I might actually have a romantic connection with someone... Even if it's just feeling it might be possible for me to begin with
Nothing works. I've lowered my expectations. I'd settle for just a few dates, a one night stand even. Just going to clubs and parties and such- doesn't work. I've tried building my friendship network, I've got more friends than I know what to do with now. Still no prospect of a relationship. I even asked my female friends to help me meet people, maybe bring their friends over to our place (most of them are my flatmates), and they didn't really know what to do. Last year, I tried OkCupid, and, I honeysuckle you not, there was only a total of 12 girls in my age range (which I think I put as 18-23). This year (as per my recent thread) I tried Tinder. No luck whatsoever.
I'm gonna keep my Tinder profile up for a week or two after the next semester starts, since there will probably be much more active people during school days, but, if that doesn't work... I honestly don't know what next. And yes, I know, I know "Be patient, everything happens at its time". I know that. But... I don't know what to do to make it happen. It's something I want, need even at this stage. I'm turning 21 soon, and I've only had one (online) relationship. I just want to feel like I might actually have a romantic connection with someone... Even if it's just feeling it might be possible for me to begin with