Bella said:Papabear said:Wow... what a pompous arrogant ******* the OP is.
"white" "asian" "whatever". You can't get girls because your personality is honeysuckle. First of all wanting to date a "white girl" instead of any girl that you mesh well with is just effing tacky and shows how shallow you really are.
I know, right?
NOT TO MENTION HE DISCUSSES KILLING AND RAPING.
And it's really desirable for people to selectively withhold empathy for others. I really don't think it's such a great thing to be here and want empathy yourselves, but then think because someone is different you deserve it and they don't. Expect to get back what you do to others. The universe has a way of making this happen and you will only have yourselves to blame. And I am not talking magic or spiritual revenge. What you do to others you do to yourself, literally. Many are too blind to see it.
I can't say I really fully agree with what he says, but obviously he is in pain.
Chris, I recommend that you make a real attempt to challenge your beliefs. You seem to be stuck in seeing only what you want to see. It’s extremely common, but you seem to take it further then many. You are quite simply asking all the wrong questions and then act surprised at what the answers are.
Many people go through what you do and never say a single word to anyone about it. I am not sure which is the better way as both suck, but you are trying to force others to give you what you want for all the wrong reasons. Maybe this is normal in your household. I just want to say that trying to "force" anyone to do anything is wrong. No matter who does it. No one can actually force anyone to do anything. You need to realize this about yourself and others.
Deliberately manipulating others is also wrong.
The only way you can “get” anything from others is by being the first one to give it. Trying to take from others what they don’t part with willingly is wrong.
If your parents are commiting abuse to you or others I recommend you report it RIGHT NOW. No excuses.
If you hurt others you will be caught, you will be punished, and you will deserve it.