I will never post in 'I' am lonely' forum again

[sweetviki]

Well I thank all the people that gave me advice when I needed it but I think its time for me to leave this forum or at least to never post in the 'I am lonely thread' I had issues with relationships and Ive needed people to talk to and give me advice. Some were very friendly while others not so much. All I needed was advice and here I got cussed and insulted by guests because I didnt meet their religious standards. I'm usualy very tolerant of other peoples religions but it angers me when they try to force their ideals on other people and treats them like crap. The "I want to make love to sweetviki thread' seriously got me worried. I dont know if it was a joke or not because I do understand that there are many people here that do come strong due to lack of social skills withought realising that such advances might scare people away. (I did not meant to offend anyone with that statement if I did sorry) I dont like the guest policy I think only registered users should be able to post because it gives those ignorant ******** the oportunity to insult people withought exactly knowing who they are. I've noticed a pattern an it seems we have one guest in particular that has been mistreating other memebers of the forum and posting images. I urge others to disregard such nonsence an realise that the people that post such crap are the ones that are in need of alot more help then we are. Each person has a right to post about whatever they want weather it be sex or drugs because those are issues in todays society and should be adressed. If it goes against your religion then dont read it. As far as kids seeing it, its a parents responsibility to make shure that their children dont go into innapropriate sites but like it or not we live in a big bad world and sooner or later kids will find out and get exposed to such material. This is why its a parents responisbility to treach their children about such things so when they do run into it, even if its on this site, they will know right from wrong and make the best decisions. I'm not offended by what was said I'm simpy angry at some peoples ignorant and closed minded attitudes. Give avice about lonelyness but dont insult others because you are no worse or better then they are.

 

[Robin]

I hope You made some bonds with people here so that You can contact them via PM or such at least, if You need to. I wish You a good life if this is the last time i see You around. Good luck with everything, Sweetviki.

 

[justme]

Sorry to see you go. Non the less, i wish you luck in your life.. I also fully agree that the forums guest policy sucks.

 

[lonely2beeme]

everything she said is true ,it is narrowmindness cowards thats hide and stir the **IT up that cause the worst problems and they just bore me, it makes me miss argueing with ........aaron for example, when he hijaks a thread off topic (which is the time i usually get into it with him) ,and i mean it in the nicest way possiable but .....at least he is a real challenge just getting thru his vocabulary gives me a migrain most of the time lol i still cant figure out how those words go together to mean what he is saying even after haveing looked it all up lol 20 years living outside of the usa as definately hampered my english voacabulary. however he use to make me cry,true,..... half a year ago when i was a newmember lol i have grown alot of armour over the last 6 monthes amazing what a divorce does for a woman so i dont find the arguements with him anything more than entertaining at best annoying at worst , hes a member he can have his opinion (just try to stay in reasonable bounds of topic ) but the guests dont even have entertainment value nor anything of real value to say other than bigotry,intolerance and prejudism , annoying at best offensive at worst.

seriously and honestly , i dont mind that members may argue at times its bound to happen but at least we are members argueing/debateing and all we have is our name here to place as a identity .if you have a opinion you are willing to fight for you should also be willing to put your name behind it .when members and real guests use the guest status abuse guest status even like what has been going on it isnt for the better of the community it is annoying and runs the meeker/new members off for fear if they post they too will be attacked .

i really think that unless the guest policy is made where they can read forums but dont have posting abilities until they are registered , that all the members should stop posting all the threads in the "iam lonely " forum and start posting in the " lonliness" forum

you can pm me anytime you need viki. i always love a chat.

ps to aaron directly,this is not a hit on you....think of it more as a compliment , you are a challange. only challengeing MEMBER i could think of that has gone rounds with (me) members while useing your name to stand behind your convictions.that is the point im makeing .
debate all you want but do it as a registered user ,be a part of the community or just visit and like most visitors should mind your manners .

 

[sweetviki]

I take back the fact that I will never post. I will however never respond do any guest that is going to be rude ignorant and immature

 

[Donald Cole]

Hi viki, where are you from? I would like to be your friend. Not everyone here is like those who post images of Hitler and otherwise offensive things!

 

[sweetviki]

oh completely agree with that and if you look at the posts the guest has written some sexualy explicit things to me hopefuly they will track him

 

[teach]

Sorry, I had removed the post. I'll put it back...

I had mentioned that the guests need to be carefull about who they post about. Some of the people they are talking to may still be minors, not legal adults, so they are writing these things to people underage. Bjarne does get the IP addresses from postings, so they may want to stop before they really mess up.

 

[lilyelk]

The guest feature is what made me feel safe to post here to begin with (just giving you a different perspective). I guess it depends a lot on the pain people are coming here with. I will agree, the disrespectful abuses is really too bad because the guest feature gives a person who is truly hurting a chance to just "release" while feeling safely hidden and I would hate for it to be lost.

 

[snow]

The guest feature is what made me feel safe to post here to begin with (just giving you a different perspective). I guess it depends a lot on the pain people are coming here with. I will agree, the disrespectful abuses is really too bad because the guest feature gives a person who is truly hurting a chance to just "release" while feeling safely hidden and I would hate for it to be lost.

The problem with the guest feature is that 'I am lonely' harbors a majority of the threads now (many of which belong in off-topic) and the guests degrade the quality and community of this site. Impersonation, spamming, flames, confusion...I can't even read through a post in here without feeling like I'm at a circus. Even if I stuck to posting in the other forums, 'I am lonely' steals much of the attention. I came here to join an online community. The guests that really want to be helped should have no problem registering. If they are too depressed to register they will eventually out of curiosity.

 

[Guest]

I disagree. I am too depressed to register and will not do so out of curiosity.
I may even become an hero if you b& guest posts.

 

[Bluey]

I take back the fact that I will never post. I will however never respond do any guest that is going to be rude ignorant and immature

Hi there am glad your still going to post coz I agree with most if not all you put in your first post.

But its only the I am lonely topics that gussets can post in. So maybe just avoid them. I know sometimes you just get stupid ppl that are only hear to get your back up. As bjarne said to me one time. Best to just ignore them and report them. That way you don't give them anything to keep coming back. Its the argument they want you see.

I disagree. I am too depressed to register and will not do so out of curiosity.
I may even become an hero if you b& guest posts.

gussets like you are no problem. Your only hear for the same reason as we all are and am glad to see your gonner keep coming back. The moor ppl we have hear the moor chances of us all making good friends and having a good time and working fro the defecates of life together. Its all good

The advantage in registering tho is that we all well get to know you and right know we may just think your another gusset even tho you may have posted 20 times already. Also as a member you can do things like post all over the forum and even privet meeseg one another. But as I say its all cool and glad to see good friendly ppl whether you a guest are not

 

[lonelygirl]

Keep posting, folks. Snow, I post all sorts of things in I am lonely since it feels like the 'General' forum. Then after it doesn't get buried, we can move it to off-topic.


We should make I am Lonely a 'General Discussion' thread and let the stuff be moved out as Bjarne chooses.

Guests ARE a problem. Someone, it feels like only one or two people, is a freaking COWARD who likes to insult, flame, and vaguely threaten, and post pornography and offensive images. I know he is just looking for some attention, but I am not going to back down. I refuse to be intimidated by someone telling Vicki he's going to rape her. Sorry.

As in real life, I will stand up against evil.

 

[Guest]

Umm..not being rude, but this is the guest forum, but aren't there like 10 more for just the registered users? So if someone abused you, or you feel you don't want to talk to strangers .. you just don't have to come here!

This is the internet, get over it .. everyone coming here is messed up in some way .. no need to be a drama-queen over it (I'm leaving -- no wait I'm not --).