murmi97 said:
Mr.YellowCat said:
murmi97 said:
Mr.YellowCat said:
murmi97 said:
Yeah actually, in case you didn't know, that is a thing on CL. I've seen "cuddle buddy" ads before.
Whů, really? Interesting...
I never really used craigslist as in the place I live, its not really known.
Really. You might not see many posters in your city's section since it's not known like you say but there are always lurkers on every website, so you may get replies anyway.
Be safe and make them verify that they're actually human before you give them any personal information though.
Thank you for the recipe
But I´m not doing it, that would be wrong and selfish of me... I was just joking that I would do it
But that is not an option
How would it be wrong? I guess if you were in a relationship it would, but I wouldn't mind posting one of those exact ads myself someday when I live on my own. The idea is supposed to be that both of you need this affection, not that it's some paid service like what this woman wanted for Christmas, if that's what you're thinking(well depending on which category it's in).
Its personal, individual to say.
Cuddling is kinda intimate. Nice, but intimate. Someone looking for someone to cuddle with would indicate being lonely to a point of looking for someone to do it with.
And like that, one thing may lead to another, and because of that intimacy that one was lacking before, one may develop feeling towards the other.
The risk of that is too great for me to do so, as the nice moments of cuddling would be then countered by making someone sad by not feeling the same way back, or even if feeling, rejecting him/her.
So it would be wrong towards that person, risking the possibility of making him/her sad.
But that is only my case, it does not apply towards others, as others, unlike me, mostly, are seeking a relationship, partnership. I, unable to have one, would be selfish of risking someones mental well being just for making me feel artificially less lonely.
Its a long case
Its a nice idea, but too risky for me to do it
I wont risk other ones well being
Disappointing him/her
Thanks for having a conversation with me though