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I'm so very, very tired.
I used to believe everything in life could be achieved through willpower, patience, and determination. I'm starting to think differently.
I don't know why I'm bad with people. I used to be very, very fat. I though that was the problem.
I'm not fat anymore. Very fit in fact. I love exercise. But I'm still terrible with people.
I tried to go out, say "hi" with a smile on my face to 50 strangers in one week. I felt good. Nothing came of it though. It was very hard to do.
I think I'm a good person. I like to think I'm special. I go to a good school, have won several awards in both academics and athletics, and I'm hard working at my job. My boss thinks I do good work.
But I'm terrible with people. Women, especially.
While at school, I wonder how other kids get invited to parties, how they have such good connections, how they get each other's phone numbers. I could never figure it out.
I'm not going to lie, I find it very hard to force myself to become very interested in other people. I wish it wasn't so, because I know for a fact that for success to occur in this lifetime, it's all about who you know, not what you know.
I'm fortunate to say that I've had one very good friend in my life. He was my friend before and during my middle school years.
I actually got invited to a birthday party recently, in fact. By sheer luck, I ran into one of the few acquatiances who knew someone who knew someone that was having a brithday party. I introduced myself a couple weeks before. She seemed nice. Her friends didn't like me though. I don't know why. Again, I know I'm a good looking person. I don't say this to be vain, but to say people don't like me because of my looks would be a lie. They don't like me because of my personality. And I don't know why.
Tonight I went to her party and I had the most unwelcoming vibe. All her friends either glared or ignored me. I went up to wish her a happy birthday, and thank her for inviting me. She barely remembered me. I think she though I was some random person crashing her party. I left within 10 minutes of arriving. I know when I'm not wanted. It's a familiar feeling.
I don't know what's wrong with me.
I've spent my whole life trying to figure it out. And I don't know what it is. I've read books, joined clubs, sports, done hypnosis, seen therapists, asked people I know (they just say it will come with time), done personal, crazy exercises in self confidence.
Sometimes I think my genetics are flawed for social contact.
I'm very tired of trying to figure it out. And trying to fix it.
So very tired.
I used to believe everything in life could be achieved through willpower, patience, and determination. I'm starting to think differently.
I don't know why I'm bad with people. I used to be very, very fat. I though that was the problem.
I'm not fat anymore. Very fit in fact. I love exercise. But I'm still terrible with people.
I tried to go out, say "hi" with a smile on my face to 50 strangers in one week. I felt good. Nothing came of it though. It was very hard to do.
I think I'm a good person. I like to think I'm special. I go to a good school, have won several awards in both academics and athletics, and I'm hard working at my job. My boss thinks I do good work.
But I'm terrible with people. Women, especially.
While at school, I wonder how other kids get invited to parties, how they have such good connections, how they get each other's phone numbers. I could never figure it out.
I'm not going to lie, I find it very hard to force myself to become very interested in other people. I wish it wasn't so, because I know for a fact that for success to occur in this lifetime, it's all about who you know, not what you know.
I'm fortunate to say that I've had one very good friend in my life. He was my friend before and during my middle school years.
I actually got invited to a birthday party recently, in fact. By sheer luck, I ran into one of the few acquatiances who knew someone who knew someone that was having a brithday party. I introduced myself a couple weeks before. She seemed nice. Her friends didn't like me though. I don't know why. Again, I know I'm a good looking person. I don't say this to be vain, but to say people don't like me because of my looks would be a lie. They don't like me because of my personality. And I don't know why.
Tonight I went to her party and I had the most unwelcoming vibe. All her friends either glared or ignored me. I went up to wish her a happy birthday, and thank her for inviting me. She barely remembered me. I think she though I was some random person crashing her party. I left within 10 minutes of arriving. I know when I'm not wanted. It's a familiar feeling.
I don't know what's wrong with me.
I've spent my whole life trying to figure it out. And I don't know what it is. I've read books, joined clubs, sports, done hypnosis, seen therapists, asked people I know (they just say it will come with time), done personal, crazy exercises in self confidence.
Sometimes I think my genetics are flawed for social contact.
I'm very tired of trying to figure it out. And trying to fix it.
So very tired.