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PyramidHead said:
Something I found

Interviews with strippers have revealed that the customers are generally viewed as "suckers" for giving the dancers money just for their physical attraction.
I guess escorts and sex workers don't have a different opinion about guys paying for their company.

however nice the woman is towards you, it's obvious it's all an act. As long as the guy knows this ! It's all about the money your giving them ! -
 
duff said:
PyramidHead said:
Something I found

Interviews with strippers have revealed that the customers are generally viewed as "suckers" for giving the dancers money just for their physical attraction.
I guess escorts and sex workers don't have a different opinion about guys paying for their company.

however nice the woman is towards you, it's obvious it's all an act. As long as the guy knows this ! It's all about the money your giving them ! -

Errr hello? I think Richard Gere would beg to differ???

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The Good Citizen said:
duff said:
PyramidHead said:
Something I found

Interviews with strippers have revealed that the customers are generally viewed as "suckers" for giving the dancers money just for their physical attraction.
I guess escorts and sex workers don't have a different opinion about guys paying for their company.

however nice the woman is towards you, it's obvious it's all an act. As long as the guy knows this ! It's all about the money your giving them ! -

Errr hello? I think Richard Gere would beg to differ???

220px-Pretty_woman_movie.jpg

I'm not Richard Gere !

On the other hand, I'm facebook friends with a sex worker. The subject just came up one visit so we added each other. She must really trust me because she has a family and loads of friends. I bet only her husband knows what she does. She's got 2 lovely kids, if you looked at her photo's you would think she worked in an office or something.
 
I'm sure an Escort is capable of falling for a client though, anything is possible. Sure they treat it as a job and being friendly and affectionate is all part of the service but people can fall in love at work too.

Anything is possible, I'm sure plenty of Escorts do meet clients and start a relationship in real life, I just wouldn't take their affection to mean anymore than business at face value...but if someone asks they may say yes, they may say no. I'm sure many an Escort would want stability if the right guy for them came along. If he can accept she used to be an escort and she could accept he was a guy who used to pay for them.. then you see where it leads, nothing is impossible.
 
Yes, strippers and prostitutes do tend to see their clients as suckers. When you are willing to pay someone for their company (no matter what type of company it may be), it sends a message that they are superior to you. Strip clubs is sort of a family business. So this isn't conjecture.
 
It is so true how it states they are superior to you I find it to be such a shame some stoop to that level to hire escorts but loneliness can really make people do brazen things
 
Lefty Lonely said:
It is so true how it states they are superior to you I find it to be such a shame some stoop to that level to hire escorts but loneliness can really make people do brazen things

it is sad some men have to 'pay' for the company of a woman. But we are only human and we have needs. Life isn't fair, you are always going to get winners and losers.
 
In addition to the natural allure that women have simply by virtue of being women, they have also perfected the art of being 'the prize' over the centuries and millennia. Most recently, society has taught, if not outright forced, women to compound this allure with the use of extreme artificiality. What this means is: fake hair, fake nails, fake tits, fake eye color, fake skin tone, fake height, fake weight, fake scent, fake laugh, and often fake morals, values, and ambitions. I don't envy the modern woman. Nor would I want to be in her shoes. It is important not to buy into what society is selling. In addition to pushing the fact that all women - simply by virtue of having a vagina - should be worshipped as deities, society will sell you all sorts of preposterous and collective 'crocks of honeysuckle'. One can't help but notice that the pool of women with genuinely human characteristics (both physical and spiritual) has been poisoned and is dwindling. Things are in a sad state of affairs. That being said, I would not pay a woman for what is right and natural. My right hand has never lied to me, trashed my house, stole my money, or messed my best friend. Vagina is good, but, not that good.
 
bodafuko said:
In addition to the natural allure that women have simply by virtue of being women, they have also perfected the art of being 'the prize' over the centuries and millennia. Most recently, society has taught, if not outright forced, women to compound this allure with the use of extreme artificiality. What this means is: fake hair, fake nails, fake tits, fake eye color, fake skin tone, fake height, fake weight, fake scent, fake laugh, and often fake morals, values, and ambitions. I don't envy the modern woman. Nor would I want to be in her shoes. It is important not to buy into what society is selling. In addition to pushing the fact that all women - simply by virtue of having a vagina - should be worshipped as deities, society will sell you all sorts of preposterous and collective 'crocks of honeysuckle'. One can't help but notice that the pool of women with genuinely human characteristics (both physical and spiritual) has been poisoned and is dwindling. Things are in a sad state of affairs. That being said, I would not pay a woman for what is right and natural. My right hand has never lied to me, trashed my house, stole my money, or messed my best friend. Vagina is good, but, not that good.

As an update we have now been together for almost 3 weeks , she has stopped escorting completely and we have both met each others families who are and shall stay unaware of here previous life , It was the hardest decision of my life but I truly
Love her more than anyone could know , She has started working with me Full time in my business and I've truly never been happier. We have both had a Series of health check so that we could enjoy each other without fear Of anything from the past as a precaution for us both.
My wife was relived when we sat down and decided to go out own way she had been equally unhappy for some time and once initial upset and sadness for us both agreed we would stay close friends , I will continue to provide for her financially and for the children's in our family home.
I don't know if we will survive long term but I only know that I needed to try and
At the moment I look forward to the future in a way that I haven't for years, it's early days but we are gonna give this a go
 

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