So yes I am fat. I wasn't always this way. I used to play sports. Since I have become fat I've heard the phrase "she's pretty for a fat girl." Like wtf does that even mean? Anyway, I have a friend who always gets guys b/c of her buttocks. She's single and sick of it also but it's harder for me now to attract guys. I know I need to lose weight for health, but I don't want it to be about vanity. I am just sick of being single to the point I am crying. I haven't been in a relationship in 5 years. I am 25, never had a Valentine...i just feel like something is wrong with me. Every guy that I meet just wants to have sex with me. They never want to date. I mean I have given all types a chance b/c I like people who who they are. But is the reason no one wants a relationship is b/c I am fat? I always put effort into my appearance for my own self esteem but now b/c I am just to the point I feel desperate, I am starting to look at anything that I can. I am trying to apply to grad school, and I promise there is not one over weight person on my campus. Everything is seriously starting to bother me now that I am sick of being alone. I work, I go to school, and I am raising my child on my own. At some point in time, I need something for myself. I honestly don't understand what is going on. It's getting harder to watch people around me get in and out of relationships and I can't even get a nibble. I think I am going to need therpy soon. Please, anyone with a heart respond. I am lost.