I have had a friend for several years and we usually meet once a week for coffee. However, I have noticed that she often makes critical remarks about me/to me and am wondering if she is really a friend and if she even likes me at all. For example, I am overweight and for a fair number of weeks earlier this year she would mention my weight every time we met at some point. (I am not massively overweight, though could stand to lose two stone.) I never brought the subject up-she always brought it up herself. Her son who works in IT recently looked at my computer as it wasn't working and afterwards when we met she pushed a cloth at me saying that the dirt on it came from the inside of my computer ( I don't open electronic devices) and there was also some cat fur from under some keyboard keys on the cloth too-I don't know why she felt she wanted to do this. She said I will never find a man. She went on at me for having aluminium double glazing (it was installed before I moved here), for having vinyl on my living room floor instead of carpeting (I find vinyl easier to care for), and for not working (I have autism). Re not working-I said to her that if she had to live inside my head for a week, she would go crazy. There have been so many such remarks and it has left me not wanting to meet her. But I have so few friends that I am scared of losing one.