Triple Bogey
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A woman I know got married yesterday. Around 4 years ago I was hopelessly in love with her. She was single as well but she only wanted me as a friend. My feelings went after time but it was a very miserable time for me. Shocking really how awful I felt !
I see her a few times a year for a coffee. She usually sends a text wanting to meet up. I have zero feelings for her now and our meetings are sometimes a bit difficult and forced. She talks about me to other people and says how wonderful I am but it feels rather hollow. I wonder why she choose the guy she did ? Is he always funny ? Always interesting ? Everything he does and says is perfect ?
I didn't go to her wedding or send anything to her. She has loads of friends and I felt I would be getting in the way. I loved her so much and now when I was looking at her FB wedding photo's, I felt nothing, zero. Strange to go from one extreme to another.
Anybody else been in a similar situation ?
I see her a few times a year for a coffee. She usually sends a text wanting to meet up. I have zero feelings for her now and our meetings are sometimes a bit difficult and forced. She talks about me to other people and says how wonderful I am but it feels rather hollow. I wonder why she choose the guy she did ? Is he always funny ? Always interesting ? Everything he does and says is perfect ?
I didn't go to her wedding or send anything to her. She has loads of friends and I felt I would be getting in the way. I loved her so much and now when I was looking at her FB wedding photo's, I felt nothing, zero. Strange to go from one extreme to another.
Anybody else been in a similar situation ?