el Jay
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So earlier today, a game development project I've been working on with some others for over 3 years got officially terminated. And with that being the case, I can now officially say that every single project that I've started or been involved in over the past eight years has ended in failure, with me being no richer, smarter, or even necessarily wiser for the effort. Just more cynical, jaded, and burnt out.
Every time I've attempted to seriously put my time and effort into making something work, it falls apart. Maybe in some cases I didn't do all I could have, but the problem is always that other people involved get tired of it, or give up, or just disappear and don't let anyone know what happened. Or one of a myriad other things. And all I'm left with, when it's all said and done, is a few scraps of work here and there. Nothing of any real significance or size, and nothing I could show other people as evidence of my effort that wouldn't broadcast the huge numbers of failures my name would then be attached to.
Someone tell me: what is there in this world worth spending my time and energy on? What is there that won't fail despite any effort I put forth, and won't just waste my time? Is there anything at all I can devote myself to, that will not only be worth the effort involved, but that I can look at before it's even done and think "I've made a lot of progress, and when it is complete, it will be that much more amazing?"
All my life I've been told I'm so intelligent, that I could do anything. Other students at college now are amazed I get such good grades with seemingly so little effort (and compared to the effort they put into it, it's definitely true). But what the fresia does any of that matter? Everyone else I know of has a plan in their life. They know what they want to do. They have an idea of the path they need to follow to get there. Even people who don't know have some idea of both a destination and the path there. But what do I have? Jack honeysuckle.
I don't even have any real direction. I've never had much direction. No one in my family has ever been able or willing to give me guidance in life. My dad's a lazy ******* who means well, so long as it doesn't create work for him, and my mom lives in Australia and never even went to college, or had much talent in math, science, and writing (like I do). My professors at college have been professors so long they have trouble giving concrete advice. So I don't have any idea what direction to go in, or how to begin down that path even should I choose some direction.
So what the hell should I do? What CAN I do? I don't even know what sort of advice I'm looking for, or is even possible. Just don't post something like "you just have to keep trying," because that's bullshit. "just keep trying" is what's wasted the last 8 years of my life. It clearly isn't the answer.
Every time I've attempted to seriously put my time and effort into making something work, it falls apart. Maybe in some cases I didn't do all I could have, but the problem is always that other people involved get tired of it, or give up, or just disappear and don't let anyone know what happened. Or one of a myriad other things. And all I'm left with, when it's all said and done, is a few scraps of work here and there. Nothing of any real significance or size, and nothing I could show other people as evidence of my effort that wouldn't broadcast the huge numbers of failures my name would then be attached to.
Someone tell me: what is there in this world worth spending my time and energy on? What is there that won't fail despite any effort I put forth, and won't just waste my time? Is there anything at all I can devote myself to, that will not only be worth the effort involved, but that I can look at before it's even done and think "I've made a lot of progress, and when it is complete, it will be that much more amazing?"
All my life I've been told I'm so intelligent, that I could do anything. Other students at college now are amazed I get such good grades with seemingly so little effort (and compared to the effort they put into it, it's definitely true). But what the fresia does any of that matter? Everyone else I know of has a plan in their life. They know what they want to do. They have an idea of the path they need to follow to get there. Even people who don't know have some idea of both a destination and the path there. But what do I have? Jack honeysuckle.
I don't even have any real direction. I've never had much direction. No one in my family has ever been able or willing to give me guidance in life. My dad's a lazy ******* who means well, so long as it doesn't create work for him, and my mom lives in Australia and never even went to college, or had much talent in math, science, and writing (like I do). My professors at college have been professors so long they have trouble giving concrete advice. So I don't have any idea what direction to go in, or how to begin down that path even should I choose some direction.
So what the hell should I do? What CAN I do? I don't even know what sort of advice I'm looking for, or is even possible. Just don't post something like "you just have to keep trying," because that's bullshit. "just keep trying" is what's wasted the last 8 years of my life. It clearly isn't the answer.