losingallhope
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I just spent the past hour looking at other peoples myspace pages and now I'm feeling pretty close to suicide.
Sorry, thats a bit of a brash introduction cos I'm new here
I should probably explain about myself or something?
I'm 18. I have no friends. Literally not one. I have no boyfriend.
I'm not in work or education due to pretty serious mental health problems.
All I have is my family, but I think I even annoy them.
Having a family (it sounds harsh) really doesn't mean anything to me
It feels like they don't count for much because they only hang out with me because they have to not because they like me.
Growing up I never had a normal childhood, I've never had the chance to do normal teenage stuff because of the things that have happened to me.
My mum was sick and I looked after her until she died when I was 16
I didn't really go out and socialise or have any real friends because of my home life and the fact that I started to get very depressed around the age of 16. I started to self harm and developed an eating disorder.
Around the time all that mental health stuff was developing
I started college. I was doing good work wise, I made a few friends and felt like I was starting to get a normal life. I went out and kissed a few boys and was having fun.
Then my mental health got a lot worse. I had a pychotic break and started hearing voices and hallucinating. My self harm was becoming dangerously bad and I tried to kill myself by cutting my wrists.
I didn't die. I just seriously injured myself and had to undergo surgery to put it right. I ended up being sectioned quite a few times and put in a pychiatric hospital. The amount of times I was sent to the hospital meant that I couldn't keep up with my college work or my social life. I lost touch with everyone and found myself living alone because I couldn't get on with my family. I was in and out of hospital constantly.
Now I'm starting to recover from my pychosis but it feels like my life is just totally messed. Because of my mental health problems I feel like a total freak, I'm covered in scars from the self harm.
I was never very socially graceful in the first place but I managed to (just about) make friends and get by, but now after a year of being alone I'm just crippled by social anxiety. I just don't know how to connect to other people and make friends. I feel very unattractive because of the medication I take and the depression making me eat I've put on 4 stone.
I just feel so lonely and it hurts so bad.
I was just looking at all my old friends from college myspaces
I just feel like a total freak, so lonely and pathetic.
From what I can tell everybody else my age is really socially at ease
They are all really cool funny smart people
They are all really attractive and thin
They all have bfs or gfs
They're all ready to go to uni around september
They all go out drinking, to gigs and parties basically have fun
I just don't know what I'm living for
I sit at home everyday getting fatter and fatter watching tv and surfing the web.
I don't know what I'm living for
I'm so pathetic, it feels like everyone around me is *living*
and I'm just watching my life slip away, and I don't think I can stand to slowly watch that happen anymore. I can't do it.
sorry don't know what the point to this was
I just needed to get it out in the hope that someone out there can understand and knows how hard it is to see everyone else going out and having fun and getting laid while they just stay at home wanting to die....
Sorry, thats a bit of a brash introduction cos I'm new here
I should probably explain about myself or something?
I'm 18. I have no friends. Literally not one. I have no boyfriend.
I'm not in work or education due to pretty serious mental health problems.
All I have is my family, but I think I even annoy them.
Having a family (it sounds harsh) really doesn't mean anything to me
It feels like they don't count for much because they only hang out with me because they have to not because they like me.
Growing up I never had a normal childhood, I've never had the chance to do normal teenage stuff because of the things that have happened to me.
My mum was sick and I looked after her until she died when I was 16
I didn't really go out and socialise or have any real friends because of my home life and the fact that I started to get very depressed around the age of 16. I started to self harm and developed an eating disorder.
Around the time all that mental health stuff was developing
I started college. I was doing good work wise, I made a few friends and felt like I was starting to get a normal life. I went out and kissed a few boys and was having fun.
Then my mental health got a lot worse. I had a pychotic break and started hearing voices and hallucinating. My self harm was becoming dangerously bad and I tried to kill myself by cutting my wrists.
I didn't die. I just seriously injured myself and had to undergo surgery to put it right. I ended up being sectioned quite a few times and put in a pychiatric hospital. The amount of times I was sent to the hospital meant that I couldn't keep up with my college work or my social life. I lost touch with everyone and found myself living alone because I couldn't get on with my family. I was in and out of hospital constantly.
Now I'm starting to recover from my pychosis but it feels like my life is just totally messed. Because of my mental health problems I feel like a total freak, I'm covered in scars from the self harm.
I was never very socially graceful in the first place but I managed to (just about) make friends and get by, but now after a year of being alone I'm just crippled by social anxiety. I just don't know how to connect to other people and make friends. I feel very unattractive because of the medication I take and the depression making me eat I've put on 4 stone.
I just feel so lonely and it hurts so bad.
I was just looking at all my old friends from college myspaces
I just feel like a total freak, so lonely and pathetic.
From what I can tell everybody else my age is really socially at ease
They are all really cool funny smart people
They are all really attractive and thin
They all have bfs or gfs
They're all ready to go to uni around september
They all go out drinking, to gigs and parties basically have fun
I just don't know what I'm living for
I sit at home everyday getting fatter and fatter watching tv and surfing the web.
I don't know what I'm living for
I'm so pathetic, it feels like everyone around me is *living*
and I'm just watching my life slip away, and I don't think I can stand to slowly watch that happen anymore. I can't do it.
sorry don't know what the point to this was
I just needed to get it out in the hope that someone out there can understand and knows how hard it is to see everyone else going out and having fun and getting laid while they just stay at home wanting to die....