Maybe I should hire a prostitute and be done with it.

[Badjedidude]

The reason that I steer clear of prostitutes (aside from aforementioned critters ) is because they're not doing it because they're interested in you...they're doing it for money. When I have sex with a woman, I want it to be because she cares or wants to be with me, not because I'm paying her $200 for it...so I agree with Remedy.

Haha and yeah stay away from bar skanks.

----Steve

 

[packyourbags]

The reason that I steer clear of prostitutes (aside from aforementioned critters ) is because they're not doing it because they're interested in you...they're doing it for money. When I have sex with a woman, I want it to be because she cares or wants to be with me, not because I'm paying her $200 for it...so I agree with Remedy.

Haha and yeah stay away from bar skanks.

----Steve

lol bar skanks XD
wow, 200$??? for that much money, she SHOULD care about you, XD
i'm in the wrong profession

 

[Badjedidude]

Haha well I'm CERTAINLY not going to get a street whore for like $10!! A prosty like that is gonna have more than just critters! o_0

----Steve

 

[packyourbags]

Haha well I'm CERTAINLY not going to get a street whore for like $10!! A prosty like that is gonna have more than just critters! o_0

----Steve

lol, so it's like:

prosty: 10$
medical fees: 2000$???

hrm.
i see your point.

 

[Badjedidude]

Hahaha exactly!

----Steve

 

[mac ah do]

I'm out of a five-year relationship . I was to be popping the question on Valentine's Day. I'm 26 still a virgin I'm not ashamed of it if someone's asked me i'd flat out tell you. It was never that important, but to me I want to love somebody that much and she was it to me I could've waited to be married or if meant to be then was to be but she wasn't interested in that type of intimacy anyway at all . She became to be it the person I was waiting for . And that's all gone . It's so hard to think that I loved that person so much . I had it all and those feelings connection the perfect scenario to have that happen and never got to experience love like that. And I got to a question, will I ever I would give everything now to be back in 2004 on my road trip to Vegas . However , did I resisted temptation have fun in that way there . Somehow, I didnt even though I was at the loneliest time my whole life, in a year later I was thst relationship . I don't think I would really stop waiting for the one.. tho to be put in the situation for to happen now or later whatever way it came to be. I have no idea what decision I would make.

 

[FillyTheBish]

I'm out of a 4 year relationship and since the break I have paid for sex. I'm 27.

I went to an escort, not a woman off the street. It was comfortable, unrushed, safe and quite enjoyable. I plan to do it again the proper escorts can be stunning.

For me now, sex is nothing special, I used to think it was, but not after a 4 year relationship. It's just another bodily function.

For losing virginity, it's up to you. In hindsight, I would think nothing of it. That "special moment" never happened for me when I lost it :/

If you want somewhere to talk about it in more detail, with both men who pay and a lot of women who sell, go to punternet.com.

 

[tokyoghetto]

^^^

I did that when I was down in Vegas and it was great. I met this Japanese-Hawaiian escort and we had so much fun. She stayed the night and we totally jived, talking about all kinds of things. She wasn't my first time though, I had sex with an actual girlfriend who I lost my virginity to. Don't think I would have wanted to lose it to a hooker. But I made this girl come 3 times and she was so happy, really boosted my confidence in the end. When I got back home it was a lot easier being with girls knowing I was good in bed and it was basically their loss if they didn't want to be with me.

 

[Badjedidude]

Haha, well, to be honest...she's a call-girl...it's her JOB to make you feel good at sex. She can probably orgasm at will, dude. No higher-order prostitute is going to take your money and then treat you badly or act like they don't enjoy it. Sorry if that bursts your bubble, but...*shrug* lol

----Steve

 

[tokyoghetto]

Haha, well, to be honest...she's a call-girl...it's her JOB to make you feel good at sex. She can probably orgasm at will, dude. No higher-order prostitute is going to take your money and then treat you badly or act like they don't enjoy it. Sorry if that bursts your bubble, but...*shrug* lol

----Steve

Yeah that could definitely be true! But I have reasons to believe she was being at least semi-sincere and I'm sticking to them haha.

Also I've been with a hooker who did not hide the fact that she wasn't having a good time. I'm on meds so it's hard to cum, and she didn't seem to like that at all. Needless to say she didn't get a very good tip lol!

 

[FillyTheBish]

^^^

I did that when I was down in Vegas and it was great. I met this Japanese-Hawaiian escort and we had so much fun. She stayed the night and we totally jived, talking about all kinds of things. She wasn't my first time though, I had sex with an actual girlfriend who I lost my virginity to. Don't think I would have wanted to lose it to a hooker. But I made this girl come 3 times and she was so happy, really boosted my confidence in the end. When I got back home it was a lot easier being with girls knowing I was good in bed and it was basically their loss if they didn't want to be with me.

Sounds like you had a great time

I can agree with the confidence boost, I felt that after my first escort, it was akin to when I first had sex with my girlfriend, the nerves and exhiliration were all there too.

Apparently, so I see in most research (theres been a lot here in UK lately as prostitution has been in the news quite a bit) there are a lot of well educated escorts out there who could get other jobs, but they choose not to because they love sex.

Unbelievers can look up Belle De Jour for proof of an escort who is a qualified doctor.

Sounds like she enjoyed it, she wouldn't of talked with you if she hadn't, she would of took the money and ran.