The_long_journey said:
A letter came in saying I was denied Social Security Disabilities and my doctor was trying to compare me to her sister who has a disability and says she can work. Then I said " And I'm hurt taking anti-imflammatory meds and muscle relaxers since 2012.....and I'm still in horrible pain"
If your learning-disability is severe enough to prevent you from doing a normal amount of work or from keeping a job, you should be receiving SSI.
For SSI the pain probably won't matter to them because the government's definition of "disabled" essentially means a 'permanent disability' or a disability that has lasted or will last for a year or longer. The only way this will matter is if the doctors expect it to last for a year or more. Is this true?
If not, I think the government expects people to have Worker's Comp or lots of money just sitting in people's bank accounts, because everyone is rich, right? Sure.
Anyway, on the rejection letter you received there should be a part that explains to you how to Appeal your claim. DO THAT. And do it before the deadline listed.
In the meanwhile...
The_long_journey said:
.......I'm going to change my primary doctor ....I dont like that I was being compared ....not once did she mention she was ever in a accident.
That is a pretty good reason to change your doctor. I agree.
See this new doctor before you have your appeal, so that you have something to use at your SSI appeal.
The_long_journey said:
anyways.......I'm still filling out applications at Didlake ....which is more helpful then Melwood because the staff there just glares at you and writes everyone off.....they kept talking about what to get for lunch with snaking on a trail nuts bag in front of me.
Please do change. See explanation below.
The_long_journey said:
Government agencies are only in for the money thats all I have to say
Well, it truly depends on the person you talk to. There are some really nice and helpful people.... but most of the time I'd have to agree. I've worked at agencies like these myself and you're mostly right. A lot of the people are just ignorant, mean, and just working there to get a paycheck, they don't really care about anyone but themselves. A lot of the agencies are also very poorly set up and it's important to find a good one, and find someone who cares you can ask for each time. If that person isn't assigned to be your 'case worker', request that they be.
Usually the best agencies available in the community will have a decent reputation and the others will have bad ones.
The_long_journey said:
I cant even file a workers compensation claim .....how f__cked up is that. I didnt even know what to do and thats not even fair.
It's a pretty messed up world.
What is the reason you can't file one, though? What type of accident was this? Who was determined to be 'at fault'?
You may want to start asking around at the agencies to see if you can apply for 'legal aid'. Sounds like this may be your best option in the long run.
The_long_journey said:
All I know is my life is technically over befor it even began.... I have no hope left and I refuse to live on the streets.
No, it's not.
If you are truly left without any hope left go ask around at the agencies you know of and tell them you're desperate to get some help, explain your full situation to them. If they seem unhelpful or unresponsive, or in any way uncaring, ask if you can see someone else.
If they say they can't help wherever you asked then ask them to recommend you to a place that can and ask if they can make the phone call for you before you waste your time going there and get nothing from it.
Tell them you have no family support and will literally be living on the street if they cannot get you some help as soon as possible. May not do anything, but it kinda guilts them into doing a bit more if they weren't very motivated.
The_long_journey said:
I'm sorry but unless you have some kind of high or average IQ with a learning disability you wont make it in this world unless your family helps you or slightly supports you.
To be fair, people don't usually make it in this world even with very 'high IQs' if they don't have any family support. Disabilities do make it even worse, though.
That's why society is so screwed up, they put way too much emphasis on the family and simply assume that everyone has a decent family. Everyone else is screwed.
There are tons of preconceptions and social-problems relating to disabilities and such things and very little support. It is the reason why, statistically speaking, people with disabilities and mental illness compose the majority of those who have been 'homeless' in the long-term.
Not that I want to scare you, but just to agree with you somewhat. It's a major problem and society needs to actually deal with it on a more practical level instead of being stupid about it.
Don't let this get you down though. Keep fighting for your rights. All hope is not lost.
The_long_journey said:
All these agencies that claim they want to help people with disability is a lie.
It's not a total lie. You can still get help there. It is more like a ruse put on by really stupid people who have no idea what they're really doing (believe me, I've worked with many of these people).
Just keep pushing back, eventually the agencies are the ones that break because in the end if they get reports about them that they aren't helping people, especially official reports, those things can send them down the hole at any moment.
They will hide these facts from everyone in every way possible, though. So that's why they rarely get reported.
The_long_journey said:
All I can say by experience........ I think being born with a intellectual disability is the worse because you feel worthless...like you
dont want to even exist....I had 2 part time jobs non stop befor I was injured and look at me now....not enough IQ to even get an office job.
I'm really sorry you're having a tough time. There is so much wrong with the way capitalism works, and this certainly just makes the social problems much worse.
The_long_journey said:
You may think I'm heartless but coming from a disabled person....sometimes abortions are doing us a big favor....cause were the ones who have to suffer no one else..... No one can fully understand the struggles until something major happens to them.
Please don't think like that.
It's not you who is screwed up, it is society. Society is the one who aren't helping you and are making you miserable. They are the ones with the problems, they are the ones who don't understand people like yourself and the things you go through, they are the ones that leave you with a screwed up family and no ability to find or get support from others.
The_long_journey said:
Sorry I'm feeling helpless because I cant do anything to support myself and I feel like a bullshit failure
You're not a failure, society is just failing you.
If you need more help, don't be afraid to ask. And PM me if you need any other help. I probably can't answer right away, but I've had some experience with these agencies and stuff and I'm not the best at dealing with them and I've already explained all my 'tricks' above, but I know some others who are deeper in these things than I am and have went through all the processes multiple times, so if you need help with anything in particular I can certainly ask around.
Good luck with the job searching and everything. I hope things turn around for you.
Sorry for such a long post!