I only have 2 real friends and I consider them my friends because they've been in my life for a long time. But....I'm starting to think I need to get them out of my life because......
I've known my guy best friend for about 8 years now. These last couple of years, our friendship has been falling apart because of his stupidity. He is a compulsive liar and has been acting really strange and childish. He lies about having a job and where he works, lies about having a girlfriend, the money he has, he lies about everything. Recently, we got into an argument because he decided to start insulting me and my girl best friend so he could make himself feel better, I guess. We retaliated and he couldn't handle it so he hung up on me. Ever since then he's been calling my cell everyday but I'm always too busy to answer. When I do get a chance to call back he never answers. So today, I finally answered the phone thinking we were going to have a normal conversation and the first thing he says is "No disrespect but what the fresia do you want?" I said "You called me!" and he started acting crazy saying he wasn't calling me. I told him I have proof on my phone that he's been calling me and he hung up in my face. So, I put his number on the call reject list because I am tired of him. Should I leave it there or what?
My girl best friend is an opportunist, alcoholic, druggie, and sex maniac. I've known her 11 years. I love her to death but her behavior is tearing our friendship apart. She's been teased throughout Jr. High school by ignorant people so much that she quit school in the 8th grade. She has such a strong need for approval......she thinks that when she sleeps with men that means they find her attractive and love her. So she sleeps around with numerous random men. The only time she wants to hang out with me is when she wants to get messed up or have a sexual escapade with someone that usually has a friend who's looking for the same thing. So she started hanging around women who are up for anything. Her friends call me stuck up and talk behind my back because I'm not like her. I guess the fact that I don't whore myself out makes me stuck up. I refuse to go around these people because they are ignorant alcoholics and drug addicts. She won't speak to me for months at a time so she could hang out with whoever will buy her alcohol or drugs. The other day we were hanging out for the first time in a long time. It was getting late and I was drunk so I called a cab to bring us home (she lives around the corner from me). She refused to go home with me and would rather stay with some guy who was bragging about being shot. She didn't even know his name! She started running around naked and trying to get me to get in bed with them for a threesome. I left her there and told her not to expect me to go ANYWHERE with her again.
A family member told me....a friendship is like a romantic relationship. Once it's over......it's over. But I have no other friends. I don't know what to do with the two of them anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.
I've known my guy best friend for about 8 years now. These last couple of years, our friendship has been falling apart because of his stupidity. He is a compulsive liar and has been acting really strange and childish. He lies about having a job and where he works, lies about having a girlfriend, the money he has, he lies about everything. Recently, we got into an argument because he decided to start insulting me and my girl best friend so he could make himself feel better, I guess. We retaliated and he couldn't handle it so he hung up on me. Ever since then he's been calling my cell everyday but I'm always too busy to answer. When I do get a chance to call back he never answers. So today, I finally answered the phone thinking we were going to have a normal conversation and the first thing he says is "No disrespect but what the fresia do you want?" I said "You called me!" and he started acting crazy saying he wasn't calling me. I told him I have proof on my phone that he's been calling me and he hung up in my face. So, I put his number on the call reject list because I am tired of him. Should I leave it there or what?
My girl best friend is an opportunist, alcoholic, druggie, and sex maniac. I've known her 11 years. I love her to death but her behavior is tearing our friendship apart. She's been teased throughout Jr. High school by ignorant people so much that she quit school in the 8th grade. She has such a strong need for approval......she thinks that when she sleeps with men that means they find her attractive and love her. So she sleeps around with numerous random men. The only time she wants to hang out with me is when she wants to get messed up or have a sexual escapade with someone that usually has a friend who's looking for the same thing. So she started hanging around women who are up for anything. Her friends call me stuck up and talk behind my back because I'm not like her. I guess the fact that I don't whore myself out makes me stuck up. I refuse to go around these people because they are ignorant alcoholics and drug addicts. She won't speak to me for months at a time so she could hang out with whoever will buy her alcohol or drugs. The other day we were hanging out for the first time in a long time. It was getting late and I was drunk so I called a cab to bring us home (she lives around the corner from me). She refused to go home with me and would rather stay with some guy who was bragging about being shot. She didn't even know his name! She started running around naked and trying to get me to get in bed with them for a threesome. I left her there and told her not to expect me to go ANYWHERE with her again.
A family member told me....a friendship is like a romantic relationship. Once it's over......it's over. But I have no other friends. I don't know what to do with the two of them anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.