PlayingSolo
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Sorry to keep making threads about this, it's just all that's on my mind lately...
I think this is the first time I've ever been really attracted to a girl for what I know about her personality, and not for something like looks (even though she is beautiful...although in a different way). But I'm thinking that maybe part of the reason I like her is that she's such a mystery right now. I had the thought that maybe the more I find out about her, the less I'll be attracted to her... And I realize I won't know unless I try and that I also might end up liking her even more after learning more about her. All In all I don't really know why I'm making this thread. Just gotta get this off my chest I guess.
I think part of this comes from my last and only relationship. I was with a girl for almost a year, and only realized after we broke up that I never really even liked anything about her personality and we had no common interests whatsoever and thus I wasn't really all that attracted to her. I have no idea why she liked me to be honest. I realized I was most likely only in the relationship because it was the first girl who ever showed any interest in me, so I took it and ran with it. Maybe I'm just scared of that happening again...
Like I said I dunno why I made this thread. Just can't stop thinking bout it and don't feel like I can tell anyone irl
I think this is the first time I've ever been really attracted to a girl for what I know about her personality, and not for something like looks (even though she is beautiful...although in a different way). But I'm thinking that maybe part of the reason I like her is that she's such a mystery right now. I had the thought that maybe the more I find out about her, the less I'll be attracted to her... And I realize I won't know unless I try and that I also might end up liking her even more after learning more about her. All In all I don't really know why I'm making this thread. Just gotta get this off my chest I guess.
I think part of this comes from my last and only relationship. I was with a girl for almost a year, and only realized after we broke up that I never really even liked anything about her personality and we had no common interests whatsoever and thus I wasn't really all that attracted to her. I have no idea why she liked me to be honest. I realized I was most likely only in the relationship because it was the first girl who ever showed any interest in me, so I took it and ran with it. Maybe I'm just scared of that happening again...
Like I said I dunno why I made this thread. Just can't stop thinking bout it and don't feel like I can tell anyone irl