Ok first post. Glad this forum is here. Ill try to keep a long story short. Im early 30s married and have a young child. I have had several issues with my significant other that may seem minor but are major to me. Wont go into it all but it depresses me at times.
Recently Ive gotten to know (not by choice) a beautiful younger girl that was very interesting to me. Shared a lot of personal stuff with her. Ive been amazed by her. Things were going great. Really enjoyed talking with her. One day out of the blue I told her some things. I really opened up like I hadnt done in 10 years. I thought she would appreciate the compliments and that it would actually cheer her up.
I am unbeleivably attracted to this person. I dont know why because this is usually not even my type.
Anyway, the rest of that day went ok. Then it kind of became awkward. She doesnt open up to me anymore. Speaks to me less than she did before. Wont make eye contact and ignores me.
Another day, I decided I better apologize and try to patch things up. That made things worse. I blew it bad.
I feel like an attractive confident guy. Im honest and I have to think theres got to be
Theres got to be millions of girls who would love to receive compliments like I gave. Anyway, I think about this situation all the time now. You wish people could just be open and talk but I guess not. She wont even be friendly. I dont know if its just her personality or if I should be offended or what. Dont know whether to like her or what. So now I just backed off and dont say anything.
Crushed again for expressing how I felt. I thought getting it off my chest would feel great and now everything is Fd.
What do I do now? Let it go? This is on my mind so much it impairs how I function some days. It was a big deal for me to say something and now i regret it.
Recently Ive gotten to know (not by choice) a beautiful younger girl that was very interesting to me. Shared a lot of personal stuff with her. Ive been amazed by her. Things were going great. Really enjoyed talking with her. One day out of the blue I told her some things. I really opened up like I hadnt done in 10 years. I thought she would appreciate the compliments and that it would actually cheer her up.
I am unbeleivably attracted to this person. I dont know why because this is usually not even my type.
Anyway, the rest of that day went ok. Then it kind of became awkward. She doesnt open up to me anymore. Speaks to me less than she did before. Wont make eye contact and ignores me.
Another day, I decided I better apologize and try to patch things up. That made things worse. I blew it bad.
I feel like an attractive confident guy. Im honest and I have to think theres got to be
Theres got to be millions of girls who would love to receive compliments like I gave. Anyway, I think about this situation all the time now. You wish people could just be open and talk but I guess not. She wont even be friendly. I dont know if its just her personality or if I should be offended or what. Dont know whether to like her or what. So now I just backed off and dont say anything.
Crushed again for expressing how I felt. I thought getting it off my chest would feel great and now everything is Fd.
What do I do now? Let it go? This is on my mind so much it impairs how I function some days. It was a big deal for me to say something and now i regret it.