Nelica
Member
Well, its an short story with bad ending.. I saw an girl, we had fun for like 3-4 months via internet, and i came to finally meet her, we 've gone into an type of relationship. Distance between her and me is like 150 kilometres, but it's not an problem for me, 2 hours traveling.
After 10 months, we have gone to some serious issues, and she broken up with me, thinking it was the best of us both. Now im in kinda of a dillema:
I have read thousand sites regarding if it's good for me to stay as a friend with ex gf, thousand advices topics, but simply i can't make any decision.
Mostly i tryed that no contact period but couldn't do, because she was writting to me and calling 24/7, wishing to hear me all the time, but clearly stated to be only friends forever, nothing much more.
U know the feelings and emotions towards the loved one can't disappear in a few days, its impossible, and she is prolly acting cold but still has emotions, and i don't know if she will ever chance decision to be something more or just friends.
Now i don't know if i should just write her as a friend, stay remain/cool with no emotions or try to again start some type of rebuilding relationship, tease her etc..
Simply i don't know, cause of breakup i have problems with sleeping due of her, plus the university things and stuff, explosion..
If anyone had simmiliar experience and have an advice, please write it below.
Thanks!
After 10 months, we have gone to some serious issues, and she broken up with me, thinking it was the best of us both. Now im in kinda of a dillema:
I have read thousand sites regarding if it's good for me to stay as a friend with ex gf, thousand advices topics, but simply i can't make any decision.
Mostly i tryed that no contact period but couldn't do, because she was writting to me and calling 24/7, wishing to hear me all the time, but clearly stated to be only friends forever, nothing much more.
U know the feelings and emotions towards the loved one can't disappear in a few days, its impossible, and she is prolly acting cold but still has emotions, and i don't know if she will ever chance decision to be something more or just friends.
Now i don't know if i should just write her as a friend, stay remain/cool with no emotions or try to again start some type of rebuilding relationship, tease her etc..
Simply i don't know, cause of breakup i have problems with sleeping due of her, plus the university things and stuff, explosion..
If anyone had simmiliar experience and have an advice, please write it below.
Thanks!