My gf and I have been together for about 3 years now, we're both in our 20's.
Last night something happened that really unnerved me. Late at night (11pm) she received a phone call from a guy. She told him that she was doing homework. She also told him she was feeling better from her cold. She told him she would call him back and the call ended.
She usually tells me who it is on the phone right after the call. She didn’t.
When I asked her “late for someone to be calling.” She ignored me.
She’s talked with this guy before. Last time was in my car, a few weeks ago. She told me “I have something to take care of” (which sounds fishy). She calls him and asks if hes in class. And this is on a Sunday.
I’m not a control freak. I’m quite liberal. But this made me very uncomfortable last night. The questions he asked her were a little too personal.
I’m nervous and scared. I don’t know what to do. If I ask her directly, she will think I don’t trust her. I do trust her, but I also want to find out who it is and how come she hasn’t been exactly forthcoming and didn’t tell me.
please help.
Last night something happened that really unnerved me. Late at night (11pm) she received a phone call from a guy. She told him that she was doing homework. She also told him she was feeling better from her cold. She told him she would call him back and the call ended.
She usually tells me who it is on the phone right after the call. She didn’t.
When I asked her “late for someone to be calling.” She ignored me.
She’s talked with this guy before. Last time was in my car, a few weeks ago. She told me “I have something to take care of” (which sounds fishy). She calls him and asks if hes in class. And this is on a Sunday.
I’m not a control freak. I’m quite liberal. But this made me very uncomfortable last night. The questions he asked her were a little too personal.
I’m nervous and scared. I don’t know what to do. If I ask her directly, she will think I don’t trust her. I do trust her, but I also want to find out who it is and how come she hasn’t been exactly forthcoming and didn’t tell me.
please help.