Hi everyone...I've been gone from this forum for a while, so I thought I would take a minute to re-introduce myself.
I'm here because I USED to share many of the same issues and problems that many of you are dealing with. I was lucky enough to discover my own self-confidence...self-worth...self-esteem. Whatever you want to call it- I believe the lack of it is a main source of your frustration.
I want to extend an offer to help out in any way I can, and I put together the following:
My Top 10 Rules To Finding Your Self Confidence
I thought I would lay these out for everyone...they worked for me!
Please let me know if you would like me to expand on any of these to apply to your specific situation:
1) There is ALWAYS someone better/richer/stronger/smarter, and there is ALWAYS someone worse
2) Sometimes you HAVE to burn bridges
3) Life is too short NOT to be honest with yourself and others
4)EMBRACE your shortcomings
5)Make fun of yourself...then others won't!
6)None of us is perfect, and you shouldn't want to be
7)Understand what you believe in, and defend those beliefs always
8)Look out for those who cannot look out for themselves
9)Don't blame anyone else for your problems- blame yourself and move on
10)The Golden Rule! Treat others as you wish to be treated
If anyone is interested in chatting in greater detail, please feel free to PM me- thanks!
I'm here because I USED to share many of the same issues and problems that many of you are dealing with. I was lucky enough to discover my own self-confidence...self-worth...self-esteem. Whatever you want to call it- I believe the lack of it is a main source of your frustration.
I want to extend an offer to help out in any way I can, and I put together the following:
My Top 10 Rules To Finding Your Self Confidence
I thought I would lay these out for everyone...they worked for me!
Please let me know if you would like me to expand on any of these to apply to your specific situation:
1) There is ALWAYS someone better/richer/stronger/smarter, and there is ALWAYS someone worse
2) Sometimes you HAVE to burn bridges
3) Life is too short NOT to be honest with yourself and others
4)EMBRACE your shortcomings
5)Make fun of yourself...then others won't!
6)None of us is perfect, and you shouldn't want to be
7)Understand what you believe in, and defend those beliefs always
8)Look out for those who cannot look out for themselves
9)Don't blame anyone else for your problems- blame yourself and move on
10)The Golden Rule! Treat others as you wish to be treated
If anyone is interested in chatting in greater detail, please feel free to PM me- thanks!
