TheLonelyNomad
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I wanted to start this thread because I will be honest, life has been crappy for me.
I was in school finishing up my second degree for my second career, for the last six years. During school, I did find some female classmates to be pretty, but didn't bother with them as they already had a BF, or were already married with kids.
Recently, I finished my schooling and graduated. Now, I am working and waiting for the next opportunity to advance in my career.
Due to finishing school, I have decided to go back into the dating scene. My mother's friend has paired me up with two girls from church. One of them I didn't like because culturally, she's different from me. The second girl whom my mother's friend hooked me up with actually went to Bible study with me twenty years ago. She's not that bad looking, but two years older than me. I would not mind keeping a strong relationship with her. It's just that she called me a month ago, and told me in a quivering/shaky/nervous voice that she didn't want to continue our relationship. I was really pissed.
I also signed up with a match-making agency recently that cost a ton of money. I am hoping for some success, but after reading some of Yelp comments (many being negative), I don't expect to get into a strong romantic relationship with the girls they introduce me to.
I was also dating this girl whom one of my former co-workers matched me up with. We only went out on two dates, when she sent me a text message stating that our goals our different. She went on to say that we can still be friends, but that she does not want to keep a romantic relationship with me. So basically, I was "friend zoned" by this chick.
I am getting so frustrated and pent up with anger after being rejected repeatedly.
How come my sister can get married, give birth to her son (last year), and live a happy life?
How come all of my relatives are married and have kids?
Why only me?! I feel like God has cursed me to be single for the rest of my life.
I also don't even bother going to baby showers, wedding parties, wedding ceremonies, anymore, as I feel that my friends are "rubbing it into my face," by sending me these invitations.
The last wedding ceremony I went to was that of my frenemy. He's now an anesthesiologist in the Seattle area, doesn't even bother to contact me anymore, he's now married, and is boasting of buying an "expensive mansion" on Mercer Island.
I think these are the factors that make me dateless and be an angry/irate/bitter person for the rest of my life (like elliot):
1) I still live with my parents
2) I have just started my job, and need more promotions to get where I need to be to make a comfortable living / decent income (hence I still with my folks)
3) My racial background (yes, don't deny this!)
4) I have some social anxiety when in a room with people
I was in school finishing up my second degree for my second career, for the last six years. During school, I did find some female classmates to be pretty, but didn't bother with them as they already had a BF, or were already married with kids.
Recently, I finished my schooling and graduated. Now, I am working and waiting for the next opportunity to advance in my career.
Due to finishing school, I have decided to go back into the dating scene. My mother's friend has paired me up with two girls from church. One of them I didn't like because culturally, she's different from me. The second girl whom my mother's friend hooked me up with actually went to Bible study with me twenty years ago. She's not that bad looking, but two years older than me. I would not mind keeping a strong relationship with her. It's just that she called me a month ago, and told me in a quivering/shaky/nervous voice that she didn't want to continue our relationship. I was really pissed.
I also signed up with a match-making agency recently that cost a ton of money. I am hoping for some success, but after reading some of Yelp comments (many being negative), I don't expect to get into a strong romantic relationship with the girls they introduce me to.
I was also dating this girl whom one of my former co-workers matched me up with. We only went out on two dates, when she sent me a text message stating that our goals our different. She went on to say that we can still be friends, but that she does not want to keep a romantic relationship with me. So basically, I was "friend zoned" by this chick.
I am getting so frustrated and pent up with anger after being rejected repeatedly.
How come my sister can get married, give birth to her son (last year), and live a happy life?
How come all of my relatives are married and have kids?
Why only me?! I feel like God has cursed me to be single for the rest of my life.
I also don't even bother going to baby showers, wedding parties, wedding ceremonies, anymore, as I feel that my friends are "rubbing it into my face," by sending me these invitations.
The last wedding ceremony I went to was that of my frenemy. He's now an anesthesiologist in the Seattle area, doesn't even bother to contact me anymore, he's now married, and is boasting of buying an "expensive mansion" on Mercer Island.
I think these are the factors that make me dateless and be an angry/irate/bitter person for the rest of my life (like elliot):
1) I still live with my parents
2) I have just started my job, and need more promotions to get where I need to be to make a comfortable living / decent income (hence I still with my folks)
3) My racial background (yes, don't deny this!)
4) I have some social anxiety when in a room with people