Sway
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Okay, say within the past 3 months i'm overcome most of my insecurities and i can chat with people well, make friends, and enjoy myself... IN-PERSON
But on MSN, txt, facebook, and all these social devices thingyys, it seems that no one bothers to chat with me except when they need something...
And i start getting all sorts of insecurities...
And this problem amplifies cuz my roommate always has these lengthy msn chats the entire night with at least 1 or 2 people every single night!,,, and most of the time.. other people just talk to him first!!
Then all my class friends get txts all the time.. and i'm just sitting there staring at my phone..boo
With the little amounts of chat that I do have... they aways end abruptly, with the last lines I txt.. or send....
Maybe I'm just thinking too much,,, but would anyone care to enlighten me on this??
Tho not-in-person convos on this forum don't count as a response ,, it's just that the people here are awesome
But on MSN, txt, facebook, and all these social devices thingyys, it seems that no one bothers to chat with me except when they need something...
And i start getting all sorts of insecurities...
- Am I boring when not in person?
- Do the people only laugh with me at the moment, but not rly care afterwards?
- Am I only remebered when people need something from me?
- Is it because i can't carry a conversation properly? Tho that doesn't affect me in person...
And this problem amplifies cuz my roommate always has these lengthy msn chats the entire night with at least 1 or 2 people every single night!,,, and most of the time.. other people just talk to him first!!
Then all my class friends get txts all the time.. and i'm just sitting there staring at my phone..boo
With the little amounts of chat that I do have... they aways end abruptly, with the last lines I txt.. or send....
Maybe I'm just thinking too much,,, but would anyone care to enlighten me on this??
Tho not-in-person convos on this forum don't count as a response ,, it's just that the people here are awesome