jales
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I know a lot of the people on this site are shy.
But I was wondering (not sure if I'll get any replies)..but are there some people on this site who are NOT shy but still lonely...?
I know sometimes I might try to talk to someone in real life (and i see this as being out going)..then I would get rejected..subtly... like the person might pretend not to hear me..or (well today in a bus I saw someone I knew and they acted like the didnt know me (i know you think maybe they didnt remember but whatever..its not important))..
The point is ...sometimes being outgoing feels really bad as well... because you feel like you do try to be social and that you just fail at it... because STILL you are lonely..and it's not because you are shy.
Plus you deal with rejection..
so are there any "non-shy" alonelylifers?
But I was wondering (not sure if I'll get any replies)..but are there some people on this site who are NOT shy but still lonely...?
I know sometimes I might try to talk to someone in real life (and i see this as being out going)..then I would get rejected..subtly... like the person might pretend not to hear me..or (well today in a bus I saw someone I knew and they acted like the didnt know me (i know you think maybe they didnt remember but whatever..its not important))..
The point is ...sometimes being outgoing feels really bad as well... because you feel like you do try to be social and that you just fail at it... because STILL you are lonely..and it's not because you are shy.
Plus you deal with rejection..
so are there any "non-shy" alonelylifers?