OH man I can relate to that... I know exactly where you are coming from...
But remember man... those stories you read on those sites... and shallow people meeting other shallow people, and if they are still on the dating site then they really didn't meet anyone they wanted to be with... did they ?
It's just really, really, really hard out there... this site would exist if I was lying ... We are all having a hard time.. so It's not you man. You just have taste. But yes it does hurt, it does ware on you, it does SUCK BIG TIME.
But time tells the whole story... Those people that even hit it off... Only have a 40% chance of staying together very long... you know ?
So think about all the heart ache you are being saved from.... You Know Lindsay Lohan looks hot.... but look what you would get !! You got to be FREAKING kidding me !!
And you got to remember... there are so many women out there that have been beaten, cheated on, treated like crap, and even whored out to other guys by there guy's..... Women are scared to death to get into relationships anymore.... Allot of them even call themselves Asexual now....
So it's not you man... we live in a screwed up world, and people have been screwed over so much... They don't trust anyone... it's as simple as that.