suedehead42
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I am new here, and so far I have never seen so much criticism about a forum from its own members. People are leaving left right and centre, and citing various people for this.
Everyone seems to be on one big downer and I understand what a few of them have been saying. I know this IS a place for the 'lonely souls', but as far as I am concerned it shouldn't be a place to BE lonely.
I may be the only person here, and I mean no disrespect- who actually has an active life style, quite a lot of friends, and generally does enjoy there what they do. I am however quite shy, and do find myself feeling lonely in this existence at times, and I came here looking for some answers.
I don't mean to sound like an ignorant arse then, but it does seem like quite a bitter forum, or at least at the moment.
I am happy to try and help people as much as possible, and share experiences and the advice that would follow. But there must be a point to all of it. For example, vanity is something I have to deal with a lot from others already- but most people here seem to think that looks determine the amount of friends they have, or the quality of their days.
I know that this is all probably wrong, since I have spent so little time here. I just want to know if anyone actually does want to see there loneliness through? I came here with the pure intention to leave, once things were at peace- with some new friends! Then I wanted to probably join the 'It's a happy life' forum and skip back and forth on a rainbow.
Is all this normal?
I mean, if there was a question I would want answered from the people of this site, it would be, 'When was the last time you were truly happy?'
Sorry for being a git, or confusing. Just want to cut my loses if this is the deal. Everyone thus far seems fab, but I don't want to be threatening to stick my head up my own arse by the end of my stint. There is much more I can offer of myself, and hope to share it with someone eventually- but I don't think I will wear my heart on my selve quite yet.
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Everyone seems to be on one big downer and I understand what a few of them have been saying. I know this IS a place for the 'lonely souls', but as far as I am concerned it shouldn't be a place to BE lonely.
I may be the only person here, and I mean no disrespect- who actually has an active life style, quite a lot of friends, and generally does enjoy there what they do. I am however quite shy, and do find myself feeling lonely in this existence at times, and I came here looking for some answers.
I don't mean to sound like an ignorant arse then, but it does seem like quite a bitter forum, or at least at the moment.
I am happy to try and help people as much as possible, and share experiences and the advice that would follow. But there must be a point to all of it. For example, vanity is something I have to deal with a lot from others already- but most people here seem to think that looks determine the amount of friends they have, or the quality of their days.
I know that this is all probably wrong, since I have spent so little time here. I just want to know if anyone actually does want to see there loneliness through? I came here with the pure intention to leave, once things were at peace- with some new friends! Then I wanted to probably join the 'It's a happy life' forum and skip back and forth on a rainbow.
Is all this normal?
I mean, if there was a question I would want answered from the people of this site, it would be, 'When was the last time you were truly happy?'
Sorry for being a git, or confusing. Just want to cut my loses if this is the deal. Everyone thus far seems fab, but I don't want to be threatening to stick my head up my own arse by the end of my stint. There is much more I can offer of myself, and hope to share it with someone eventually- but I don't think I will wear my heart on my selve quite yet.
The end