Prostituion really helps reduce loneliness and makes you feel comforted. (no sex)

[SophiaGrace]

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[Poguesy]

Oh, I see. "Material" only refers to photos and such.

It refers to anything the staff finds inappropriate.

I agree, mein fuhrer!

 

[EveWasFramed]

Oh, I see. "Material" only refers to photos and such.

It refers to anything the staff finds inappropriate.

I agree, mein fuhrer!

:club: Mind ya mouth, Pogs.

 

[Edward W]

Uh oh... Does this mean I get banned for this?

[img=140x140]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v209/elitekiller/Edward/EdW_Disco.gif[/img]

 

[Sci-Fi]

Unless that inflatable dinosaur is really a penis, no.

 

[Alonewith2cats]

I would like to find a a hot male massage therapist.

 

[cicerolion]

I think this is a great story. Way to go, man. Taking control of your neuroses and predicament by exercising your options. You probably shouldn't mess around with coke though. Being all alone, you are screwed if something happens. Also, you shouldn't develop too many feelings for this woman. That is unfair to her. Professionalism is one thing, but she would still probably feel uncomfortable having to reinforce the boundaries. If you continue this practice, you should probably alternate women. Also, make sure you are being responsible with your cash.

And, come on, don't ban the guy.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

If you had seen the pics he posted, you would understand cicerolion.

I think porn should be left off of sites that aren't about that. There are sites you can go to that have all the naked pics you want. Do a google search.

And as far as prostitution is concerned, I feel that it shouldn't be illegal. It should be regulated, but adults should be able to do whatever they want, as long as it's not hurting another person, with other adults. This is an opinion that has lost me a few friends, when I share it...but whatever. We are sexual beings, and if someone is autistic and can't socially get sex, he should have the option available somehow.

 

[Poguesy]

I would hardly have called that porn.

At least, he had the balls to use his balls.

 

[TropicalStarfish]

Not that I disagree that posting some one's pics online was out of line, I think anyone who is upset by this posters experience really is kind of ass backwards on their perspective of life.

Fact of the matter is, finding a mate and procreating is NOT something EVERYONE will get to do, period. The OP took initiative and got to experience something that we all crave, intimacy.

Yes, being a prostitute isn't for every girl or guy. I know I couldn't be a prostitute. Nor do I agree that men or women should be exploited for sex to no gain or even a great detriment or loss to themselves.

However, if the OP's experience is true to his word, this was nothing more than consentual sex between two adults. A deal, 'the terms of the relationship', were struck before hand. Those terms being the amount of time intimicy would be allowed and the cost of that time.

In marriage there are terms to the agreement by both parties. In being engaged their are agreed terms to be married. In dating there are terms of exclusivity or non-exclusivity depending on the partners social contract. In prostitution the terms are there as well.

Nobody got hurt, and both parties benefited mutually. That's the facts that are presented, all opinions aside.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Exactly. Which is why I think prostitution should be legal, but regulated.

As it is, there are so many illegal prostitution rings, where not only underage girls are forced into prostitution, but suffer violence at the hands of johns (people who see them) and their pimps. I know I sound kind of funny saying this, but there is nothing funny about violence in those cases.

As far as the poster goes, the only rule he broke was posting pictures of drugs and a naked butt. Legally, he's viable for a lot more, but as far as this forum goes, the discussion should be allowed, and he shouldn't be looked down upon for having normal sexual impulses and choosing to act on them (and as an autistic, it's not like women are throwing themselves at him.)

 

[Rob82]

I remember watching a documentary with Louis Theroux a while back about some brothel somewhere in the US. Basically he goes in and gets their side of the story, and it's a pretty enjoyable watch. He is serious when needed, but generally keeps it light-hearted.

I haven't watched it for a while so my opinion might have changed over time, but you can find it here:



If I remember correctly, the bottom line was that it suited the girls doing it and it suited the guys paying for it. It's their bodies and their money I guess.

(For the record, it's not something I would ever do personally.)

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

You'd have to be pretty desperate to take that line of work, though.

I just think there needs to be a better understanding and acceptance of things like this. Half the prison population are johns from a prostitution sting, or from a weed sting. Locking up these non-violent people just leads to more violence and less room for the actual criminals.

 

[duff]

I remember watching a documentary with Louis Theroux a while back about some brothel somewhere in the US. Basically he goes in and gets their side of the story, and it's a pretty enjoyable watch. He is serious when needed, but generally keeps it light-hearted.

I haven't watched it for a while so my opinion might have changed over time, but you can find it here:



If I remember correctly, the bottom line was that it suited the girls doing it and it suited the guys paying for it. It's their bodies and their money I guess.

(For the record, it's not something I would ever do personally.)

I was talking to my regular 'working girl' a few days ago. She didn't regard herself as a 'prostitute' - she said she hated the word. She called herself a 'working girl' and what I was paying for was her companionship. And in that hour we might as well have a shag.

She's on my facebook and I can see she has an husband and 2 kids. They look well brought up as well (the kids ). I never ask too much about her life. Surely her husband knows ? She basically told me she was addicted to sex and needs it all the time. She 'likes' a lot of my comments and I do wonder if she's just trying to get me to visit her. I go 3 or 4 times a year. That does me. It's amazing but I don't want to go back a week later. I can manage without going. She always makes a comment about it 'been ages' since she last saw me. The way she jumps on me I sometimes think I should be charging her.

I know it's not for everybody but I enjoy it and I can afford it and it never gets out of control. I know it's completely fake and all I am to her is another £80 quid.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

To be honest, I've seen things where porn stars will show up at places (not in Cincinnati, though...we are a very conservative place!) and give oral sex and more to fans of their work. I'm not sure exactly what the legality or how safe that is, but considering that some of these porn stars have entered my fantasy world at some point or another, I would have liked to have engaged in this.

My favorite pornstar, who is now retired, did this a lot. I believe she retired to get married to her boyfriend, and to lead a normal life. Going by her interviews, she seemed the most grounded out of all of those in the business.

I don't know, it's a very slippery slope. People who cite religion as a reason to not engage in sex are ignoring science, and those who cite laws as a reason to not engage in adult consensual sex are ignoring the fact that it could be legal in the first place. Somewhere, science and the law have to meet.

 

[Felix]

t's amazing but I don't want to go back a week later

Really? I usually want to go back the next day

And yeah, not all the girls are your average slef-destructive hooker stereotype. Some do it until they graduate from college, for example.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I wish prostitution wasn't illegal.

I know lots of people still take part in it, but I'd feel more comfortable if I had that option available without a go to jail card.

 

[Spiderpope]

I wish prostitution wasn't illegal.

I know lots of people still take part in it, but I'd feel more comfortable if I had that option available without a go to jail card.

Prostitution isn't illegal. It's solicitation that is illegal. You can pay for sex all you want, but the prostitute cannot advertise his or her services in any way shape or form.

It's how "massage" parlours get away with it here in the UK.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

How can a guy know that a woman is offering sex, if she doesn't advertise it?

That is ridiculous. And what is sad is that it's usually the guy who goes down, and ends up with a criminal record.

 

[Tiina63]

I am a nineteen year old Computer Science student. I have Aspegers (and so do a lot of people here) and what that means is that I cannot form empathetic connections or be able to love.


I have Aspergers too and I am more than capable of loving someone and of being empathic. Not all of us have the same symptoms, so AS in itself does not rule out either empathy or love.