Questions for the Women

[Limlim]

When at the gynecologist, do any of you women ever get turned on when the doctors start probing you with the cold metal tools and such? I always wondered...

Oh, fresia no, Lim - ick!!!! I only go to female ob/gyn anyway - why the hell would a man want to be a gynecologist? It's like a woman wanting to be a proctologist.

Teresa

lol, last I checked women had asses too


Edit: also porn lied to me! It told me women love seeing the male gynecologist

 

[IgnoredOne]

lol, last I checked women had asses too


Edit: also porn lied to me! It told me women love seeing the male gynecologist

Porn never lies. Everyone else is lying to you, my LoL comrade-in-arms.

 

[tangerinedream]

When at the gynecologist, do any of you women ever get turned on when the doctors start probing you with the cold metal tools and such? I always wondered...

Oh my Christ almighty Jesus no. There's nothing erotic about the Q-Tip of Doom, boy.

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When at the gynecologist, do any of you women ever get turned on when the doctors start probing you with the cold metal tools and such? I always wondered...

No, no, and no. It is not fun or pleasurable to have a speculum stuck up inside of you while someone looks up there and 'collects samples', nor is it fun to have your boobs groped to feel for tumors. It's also not fun to have to talk to them while they're doing this.

Wait until you have a mammogram...

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^I imagine that women enjoy it about as much as I enjoy a 55 year-old woman groping my balls and telling me to force myself to cough so that she can feel my taint muscles shift with the movement of my thoracic cavity. (d)

 

[kamya]

lol, last I checked women had asses too


Edit: also porn lied to me! It told me women love seeing the male gynecologist

Porn never lies. Everyone else is lying to you, my LoL comrade-in-arms.

Wait LoL? Add me "Nooreen"

Could you guys be with someone who is working away from home a lot and only comes home a couple days a week? Or someone that you dont get to see for a couple of months and then they are home for a month or so. Not a long distance relationship but just a relationship where they are gone for work a lot.

 

[Lollipop286]

No, probably not. I don't think that person should consider dating until they can get a job where they don't have to travel so frequently and for long periods of time anyways.

 

[kamya]

What if they don't want another job?

 

[Lollipop286]

Then I guess they have to find a woman who doesn't want them around a lot

 

[Outlawstarl337]

ok girls i've got a question i want all you to answer for me that cool?
why is it girls will ***** and complain to me about the fact that this one guy they know is such a dick to them and just such a man whore then chase after them even know there are several guys these girls could go out with including my self. (has happened to me several time over my life and most recently a week ago.)

 

[Jonah]

A questionfor a woman is from me to a woman: If I came to you and asked you out for a meal or a drink would you trust me to be a good escort for you on that evening? I would not change you but would love that time to e between us and perhaps our loved ones. What we learn from each should be, if this time was a good experince could we move on to a relationship?

 

[WishingWell]

Jonah are your a female asking another female that question? If so, I have had gay friends that I loved hanging out with. We even joked about each other's sexuality. But, getting into a relationship with each other was out of the question on either of our parts because of the respect we had for each other's sexual preference.

I'd much rather answer Outlawstarl1337's question--As you probably know, I am 54 now so I wouldn't ever go out with someone who treated me badly--I know better after all of the years experience of that B.S. But, when I was in relationships when I was young, I would be attacted physically to a guy and to his "toughness" and put up with so much of his ill treatment to me, and then complain to others rather than find someone who treated me good. Why? Because at that age, it didn't occur to me that I deserved better and that instead of crabbing about him, I should find someone else.

 

[Jonah]

I could have context that last post a little wrong. I'm male and not gay, just feel that sometimes because of the lonliness that a man could give me more love than a woman but without been actually gay and sleeping together. Sometimes the lads can make us feel wanted in a frienship way and a woman can't. Am I lonley now? Never.

 

[WishingWell]

Jonah,

Thanks for clearing that up for me. Right now I have NO friends to go out with so it wouldn't matter to me if I had a female or male friend to just hang out with. I seem to have received more understanding from male friends in my past. People often say men and women cannot be friends, but in my past it wasn't so. Maybe you are meeting women who are not compassionate and can be real friends, I met a lot of women like that and also ones that were jealous or too competititve. Whatever the case may be, I would welcome right now either a man or a woman that just wanted to do some fun things like go bowling or for a bite to eat or whatever, without it turning into anything more. I am lonely. I am glad you are not!

 

[Jonah]

I wanted to mention that lonliness is not so bad at the time of your life when perhaps people could distroy your special self my friend. I'm not blaming those people but that might be believe this or not that you are loved by people but the love that you have isnt enough for love from outside to be joined to your lonliness and the love that you have in your heart. I can be a friend for that reason, I have been through so much in the past but at the present I'm happy. So therefore because I have been totally alone from society the secrets that I have learnt in that lonliness can be shared with you.

Hope we can establish a friendship.

 

[Limlim]

Okay I got another one. How many of you would be into costume roleplay? Like if a guy wanted to have sex with you while you wear various outfits that super heroines and such wear?

 

[Outlawstarl337]

ok i got a other question if you all don't mind.

so isn't obvious when a guy ask you to go to lunch that he has a interest in? and is it bad to to insist on paying for lunch?

 

[Lollipop286]

If a guy asks you out on a date (lunch, dinner, movies, etc etc), then yes it is obvious that he has an interest. Is it bad for the dude to insist on paying for lunch? No, not really. Some women don't want others to pay for their meals and whatnot because it makes them feel like they owe the dude, which is understandable. If that is the case, say something like "It's my treat, you can pay next time", so that way she can 'pay you back' as well as setting up for a second date

Costume roleplay? I don't think so...I would laugh too much throughout it all.

 

[Luke_S]

Here's a question: What do you think of a man who looks more for personality over appearance, which in this society would be deemed backwards thinking?

I seem to find all girls of all sizes, shapes and heights attractive under the right circumstances, and one of the most important points for me is personality, I like girls that can almost make an effort to read me and know what I think, are intuitive and perceptive, yet kind and open minded.

And I can see a lot of beauty from personality over appearance, and from this I like a lot of big girls too which a lot of people say is strange, I think they can be sooo **** beautiful, they are great to be around and I love that there's more to people than just appearance, and I love it when people recognize it also. It really makes me feel good to know this is there.

I think I'm like this because I can just pick up on things more than others, and I really hate girls that are obsessed with looking pretty and go clubbing and get drunk and sleep around with so many other men. I find all the girls in these music videos on MTV so **** annoying, because thy're just saying 'hey look at me, I'm so **** hot!'. I don't find any famous female actor or singer attractive, just not my thing. Even though I like to exercise and keep myself healthy and I'm a relatively fit person, it doesn't change how I see others and I am blessed with this way of thinking and I think I would be really happy with the right person.

So here's my question, what do you think of that? I'm strange aren't I? haha!

 

[Lollipop286]

I think that man is a LIAR.

"Under the right circumstances". What are the circumstances then?

Looks do matter, to what extent depends on the person. But really, you're not going to find someone who is ugly as hell 'beautiful' because of her personality. Really you're not. You can say that you will, but you really won't. You will start to grow fond of their appearance due to their personality maybe, but that's about it. People like different things in people. Just because someone else thinks something is 'ugly' doesn't mean everyone else will.

You find all girls of all sizes attractive, as long as they're not obsessed with looking pretty and are not clubbing drunken whores. Cool, so do lots of other people. This doesn't mean you don't care about appearances, this means you don't like women who are obsessed with their appearance and like to go clubbing and being drunk.

 

[Luke_S]

I think that man is a LIAR.

"Under the right circumstances". What are the circumstances then?

Looks do matter, to what extent depends on the person. But really, you're not going to find someone who is ugly as hell 'beautiful' because of her personality. Really you're not. You can say that you will, but you really won't. You will start to grow fond of their appearance due to their personality maybe, but that's about it. People like different things in people. Just because someone else thinks something is 'ugly' doesn't mean everyone else will.

You find all girls of all sizes attractive, as long as they're not obsessed with looking pretty and are not clubbing drunken whores. Cool, so do lots of other people. This doesn't mean you don't care about appearances, this means you don't like women who are obsessed with their appearance and like to go clubbing and being drunk.

All right chill out , let's not start calling each other liars, maybe you disagree with what I say and you mis-interpreted my thoughts but I am not a liar.

I agree with you that appearance does have a meaning to an extent, but really for me I like to look further than that. I like girls based on how they value themselves, I don't find girls that sleep around attractive because I believe they shouldn't put themselves through selling themselves like that, so if I met one what would I mean to them beyond just another man they've slept with?

You can pick at the small details all you want, but you still understand the meaning I am trying to convey here.