LoneHistoric
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Been a loner all my life. Even back in high school and college I was a bit of drifter, always in my own world and had no problem with it. And I am people person too, at least at work. I get along with others and have no problem public speaking or being a project leader.
But partly by choice and partly due to failed relationships, I am alone. And I do not want to be anymore.
First, I would like a date who is not terrified when I explain my stable, happy, but very solitary existence. No friends and very little family connection are a huge red flag for most women. I do not seem to attract women who are also alone or lonely. I stopped looking for the love of life many years ago, and the results did not change. I get to a certain point with people and either I lose interest or they do and friendship is impossible for me for some reason. I am too independently focused - I am too selfish - and I can't seem to hold on to someone in any capacity.
I do not want to be alone, I can't be alone anymore. I just want to share life with someone in some way and I just can't do it.
Thanks for letting me vent.
But partly by choice and partly due to failed relationships, I am alone. And I do not want to be anymore.
First, I would like a date who is not terrified when I explain my stable, happy, but very solitary existence. No friends and very little family connection are a huge red flag for most women. I do not seem to attract women who are also alone or lonely. I stopped looking for the love of life many years ago, and the results did not change. I get to a certain point with people and either I lose interest or they do and friendship is impossible for me for some reason. I am too independently focused - I am too selfish - and I can't seem to hold on to someone in any capacity.
I do not want to be alone, I can't be alone anymore. I just want to share life with someone in some way and I just can't do it.
Thanks for letting me vent.