rekindling hope

[ClosetGeek]

Hello everyone,
I would like to know how you would go about rekindling hope in believing that you will meet the one?
I have had my share of bad relationships, and I lost my hope.
What do you recommend?
Meditate on this idea and say a mantra everyday?
Like repeating the words "I will meet that special someone"?

 

[Unacceptance]

You realize you've just opened yourself up to a cheesy pickup line involving "BABY I'LL LITE UR FIRE 4 U"

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Will...CG

I've been working out trying to get buff to have that sexy body
so you can hit on me
I recommend you fall in love with me becuase I am that special
someone.

You deserve to be loved and I have an endless surply of it.
I'm willing to share it with you.
I'm usually into blondes...but this time I'm willing to make an exemption.
I do belive you hold the key to my heart.
On the plus side, you're a very beautiful woman inside and out.

I know what it's like to have been hurted.
Surely I wish that upon no one, especailly you.

I've been praying for a supermodel to come into my life, everyday.
God willing...I hope god grant me, you. I deserve your love , I know I do.

 

[Bluey]

ClosetGeek, A question for you. where do you normally meet the guys you date?

 

[grundel70]

What do I recommend?

Don't give up!

LOve is one of those things that you will probably fail at alot before you get it right. Lords knows I am still failing at it. The down side is pretty bad...but the upside will be worth it.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Seriously though

I've been doing a lot of house cleaning. Facing my own deamons.
Recaliming myself. The last relationship sort of left a bitter taste
in my month sorth of speak. I lost myself somewhere alone the line.
I needed to heal. I recieved a lot of love and support from here
and where else face to face. I'm well enough now to stand on my
own two feet. Well enough to take a good honest hard look at
myself and admitted my shortcomings and become willing to take
responsiblities for my actions.

Alot of clearing out my mental and emotional baggages from
the previouse relationship. Doing whatever it takes..wheather
I pray for her to be happy...if that what it takes, that's what it takes.
Forgiving her and forgiving myself...whatever it takes to get rid
of the hate, anger or whatever negative BS out of me.
I wish not to carry whatever baggages i have into the next relationship.
Bascailly manning up doing whatever it takes to be a man and not a boy.
Loving myself, taking care of myself, charishing myself, rekindling the hope within me.

Why ?
I seriously doupt any women wants a boy for a special someone.
I can't giver her what I don't have.
If I can't truely love myself...then how in the heck am I going to be able
to truely love her ?
And how in the heck is she going to beliving in me...if I don't beliving in myself ?
How in the heck am i going to make her laugh if i can't laugh at myself ?
How in the heck is she suppost to feel good about herself being around me, if I am not happy or feel good about myself ?

Most likely you wouldn't want a vacumme or a life force
sucking machine or a miserible sob for that special someone would ya ?

The truth will come out and show in a long term relationship or a relationship of a life time.
The daily grind

 

[Caesium]

Baby, I'll light your fire for you


I've met that special one, several times, but she never met me, if that makes any sense. How can women ever be lonely? Most guys want women, they clamor over each other for them, women don't always want men it seems. A shy female is much more valuable and wanted in society than a shy male.

 

[bookbinder]

Hello everyone,
I would like to know how you would go about rekindling hope in believing that you will meet the one?
I have had my share of bad relationships, and I lost my hope.
What do you recommend?
Meditate on this idea and say a mantra everyday?
Like repeating the words "I will meet that special someone"?

Find yourself a fresia doll.



...in all seriousness, though, it's not "having hope" that will find you that special someone, it's chance. Chance that you'll meet the right person. You cannot find love like you look for your lost keys; you can only meet someone and suddenly, whether within a minute or a decade of knowing them, feel different.

Every day is a new one. Just because you've had bad ones doesn't mean you know tomorrow before it comes. Relationships are the same way.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Hello everyone,
I would like to know how you would go about rekindling hope in believing that you will meet the one?
I have had my share of bad relationships, and I lost my hope.
What do you recommend?
Meditate on this idea and say a mantra everyday?
Like repeating the words "I will meet that special someone"?

Find yourself a fresia doll.



...in all seriousness, though, it's not "having hope" that will find you that special someone, it's chance. Chance that you'll meet the right person. You cannot find love like you look for your lost keys; you can only meet someone and suddenly, whether within a minute or a decade of knowing them, feel different.

Every day is a new one. Just because you've had bad ones doesn't mean you know tomorrow before it comes. Relationships are the same way.

I'm also a firm beliver I make my own luck too.
I found her like a long lost key. She came into my life when I needed
her most, like a needle in a hay stack. She was that specail to me.
Then again...chances are, she'll fucken die on my ass too, and she did.
She went out of my life when I needed her most.

Somebody or something move the freaken cheese on my ass
or this freaken life is just one big fucken joke.

I have to belive there's still someone special out there for me.
Yeah...just like fucken santa clus. It's keeping me sane.
Have a childish faith....that's how you get into the kingdom of heaven.
That's what the bibble say....heck, i don't know if it's true or not.
I 'm not going to reason with it anymore...I thought it through a million times already.
I'm taking a leap of faith....F it, i have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

This is what's getting my ass out of bed and doing whatever i need
to do. The hope and drive...fire in my ass to continue living and
holding on, other wise I'd just blow my funken brains out.
Even if all my other hopes and dreams come true...it would totally
suck ass if i didn't have anyone intimatley close to me to share it with.

 

[jjam]

Yeah, I'm really struggling in this area of life. And often when I think I could see myself going for it, something clicks that makes me go back into heart barrier mode. Sheesh. It's been a looooong time since I seriously invested my heart in someone.