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Aww i feel you... Don't worry though! Not all women like that type.. i like small skinny guys.. hahaha.. it worked out fine when i was at a normal weight but put on some depression weight the last couple years.. I am getting rid of it now though.. past the halfway point!

Anyways i am 5'7" and tend to go for guys who are like 5'9" and like 150ish.. i love the smallies.. so that proves that everyone has their own indivudual tastes.. and when you really like someone... it doesn't really matter in the end because you want to love someone on the inside and have them love you the same way..
 
snow said:
I hate being skinny. I've always been thin my whole life and think that's one reason why women don't like me. I'm 6' tall but still thinner than most guys and have really tiny arms. On top of it I'm really clumsy and just make things look really difficult when I try anything. I've tried working out but it never does anything and I just end up getting sick. Women seem to want a guy that can protect them not some twig, no matter how funny or interesting my personality is. What makes it worse is that I have a thing for tall women.

I keep trying to forget my insecurity about it but today I was eating my lunch in the breakroom. I had a nice mound of chinese food and my coworkers were sort of making fun of me since I eat so much but can't gain weight. =(

I am 6'0" and 145 lbs. I've been told that I am too skinny, but personally I love the way I look. I run upwards of 90 miles a week, and the effects of it can be seen when I where shorts.

When I was younger I felt very very upset about being skinny, but you should look up how athletes who are skinny for their sport look. They look GOOD! At 6' 155, I would see you as having a great looking body. The truth is that a lot of other people will see you this way as well! You'll find a lot of people who will accept you for the gorgeous body that you've been given.

In terms of the hotty who said you're too skinny, just remember South Park. Good looking people grow up having everything handed to them; then, when they turn 40, they will realize that they are completely uninteresting Douches.

I hope that helps!
 
I personally love skinny guys.

From an entirely shallow perspective, I find them way more attractive than heavily built/muscular guys.

Don't worry about it. If I had my way, the entire world would give up caring about their own and other's appearances.
 
I haven't gained weight for like, 5-6 years. I'm 5,7 and weight 135 pounds. I eat lots of food, and I feel great, and that's all that matters to me. I know that I'm skinny, but I never let that hold me back. I can lift as much as anyone without any problems, and I do quite a lot of heavy lifting at work. I think a lot of people underrestimate me, but no one have ever talked about my skinnyness with me. I think people would freak out if I mentioned my weight ^^

Do whatever you want with your body, as long as it is what YOU want, and not just what you think others want. Big muscles doesn't always bring happiness. Just look at those bodybuilding monsters who pump themselves with steroids, because they don't think they're big enough. Sheesh!
 
I LOVE SKINNY GUYS!!! tall and slender that's my type of guy- so don't give me any "women don't like me cos I'm skinny' B.S. ;)
 
I'm really skinny too and only 5'9, so I don't even have the tall factor going for me :(. I work out, eat every couple of hours, drink protein shakes, but I still can't gain any weight. I've even tried eating total crap in an attempt to get fatter, and it didn't work! Everyone around me looks so muscled and healthy, even though they don't do crap. I guess I've just come to terms with the fact that I am not a bulky, typical guy and my wrists will always be ridiculously tiny. The added insult is that my face is slightly rounded and seems plump like a child's. People always think that I am so much younger, and not in a good way. When I tell them that I am in college, they act shocked and gawk at me. I can't date anyone because everyone finds me "cute like a little boy" instead of attractive. Such is life, but I'm ok with it now.
 
Colette said:
Too fat. Too tall. Too short. Too skinny. Small tits. Big tits. Little penis. Big penis. It's all bullshit. Don't pay attention to what that girl said because she's shallow which means she's not happy with her looks.

THIS!!! It doesn't really matter in the end on what's on the outside. Just what's on the outside. The advice I always give is if someone judges you by your looks then they are a shallow human being. I think the only exception to this is if you have an excess of body fat... I'm talking morbidly obese.

I'm 6'2 and weigh about 220... But it's mostly muscle. Losing the fat is always nice :D. Everyone is different, embrace how you look, it justifies you.
 
are you guys complaining about being skinny! never thought id hear the day! i wish i could be skinny. im getting thier though. stoped drinking soda and eating right and i think im down to like 160 lbs. but im a shorty 5'6 so 160 is actually a bit overwieght for my height. im a go do some crunches now....
 
loketron said:
are you guys complaining about being skinny! never thought id hear the day! i wish i could be skinny. im getting thier though. stoped drinking soda and eating right and i think im down to like 160 lbs. but im a shorty 5'6 so 160 is actually a bit overwieght for my height. im a go do some crunches now....

Am 130 lbs and 5,4 in height. So I beat your Short ass lol
 
I am 5ft 9 and weigh around 170...but ten years ago used to weigh around 130...then someone introduced me to alcohol and I turned 30...that seemed to solve it for me.

Joking apart though...again we cannot say that women want this...we have to trust ourselves enough to know that what we have to offer is what someone will like somewhere...we will all find them eventually.

Belief in ourselves is something that takes a long time to achieve...but we will one day...it has taken me 37 years to get where I am today...and my belief in myself has grown to almost the highest it has ever been...but it has taken me a lot to get here.
 
sleepflower said:
There's nothing more unattracive than a big muscley or fat guy. i wouldn't worry about it.

Oh the truth always hits me hardest. :p
 
Frostburn said:
sleepflower said:
There's nothing more unattracive than a big muscley or fat guy. i wouldn't worry about it.

Oh the truth always hits me hardest. :p

I was out a long time ago with this girl. We where not going out together, just friends. She is overweight by quite a bit. This kid come up to her and called her fat. she said ye but I can loss weight, You well always be a ugly ****** lol Strait out with it. This was one of the fastest comebacks I had ever seen. I lechurouly fall onto the flow laughing.

But its true. I mean if you had a deformity you would never be able to change that. where as you can by hard work and determination loss the weight as you are doing all ready.
 
Bluey said:
This kid come up to her and called her fat. she said ye but I can loss weight, You well always be a ugly ****** lol Strait out with it. This was one of the fastest comebacks I had ever seen. I lechurouly fall onto the flow laughing.

It is a good comeback but it is sad that just because someone may have some extra weight, that another will take that as a justification for being rude to them.
 
Well, with rice & water being the menu as a result of me being glass broke, I guess I'll be able to join the club soon!
 
Minus said:
Bluey said:
This kid come up to her and called her fat. she said ye but I can loss weight, You well always be a ugly ****** lol Strait out with it. This was one of the fastest comebacks I had ever seen. I lechurouly fall onto the flow laughing.

It is a good comeback but it is sad that just because someone may have some extra weight, that another will take that as a justification for being rude to them.

True, BTW I did not go out with her cos she was overweight. Just there was nothing there for us in that way. just needed to make that clear. I don't see her now even as a friend. But again that's another story :(

But ye I walk with a limp and its the same thing, Some ppl think just cos of that it gives them the right to make jokes and the spak'o noses that they make are the worst.
 
Bluey said:
But ye I walk with a limp and its the same thing, Some ppl think just cos of that it gives them the right to make jokes and the spak'o noses that they make are the worst.

Yes that also. they either don't realize or don't care that some of their comments or jokes are down right rude. They can act like the limp is a choice and they want to express their opinion on that 'choice'.
 
Minus said:
Bluey said:
But ye I walk with a limp and its the same thing, Some ppl think just cos of that it gives them the right to make jokes and the spak'o noses that they make are the worst.

Yes that also. they either don't realize or don't care that some of their comments or jokes are down right rude. They can act like the limp is a choice and they want to express their opinion on that 'choice'.

I so wish to walk with a limp was a choice, I really do. I so would not chose that.
 
snow said:
I hate being skinny. I've always been thin my whole life and think that's one reason why women don't like me. I'm 6' tall but still thinner than most guys and have really tiny arms. On top of it I'm really clumsy and just make things look really difficult when I try anything. I've tried working out but it never does anything and I just end up getting sick. Women seem to want a guy that can protect them not some twig, no matter how funny or interesting my personality is. What makes it worse is that I have a thing for tall women.

I keep trying to forget my insecurity about it but today I was eating my lunch in the breakroom. I had a nice mound of chinese food and my coworkers were sort of making fun of me since I eat so much but can't gain weight. =(
I spent like 26 years of my life being underweight. People used to call me "matchsticks" and "iron board" cause I had no curves. You need to see a specialist doctor like someone else here recommended. You need to have a check up and see what's up. Two things that help you gain weight: appropiate food and appropiate sleep. There are also some pills which increase your appetite. I took those for a while and gained weight. Nowadays I have a very normal weight.
 
ClosetGeek said:
I spent like 26 years of my life being underweight. People used to call me "matchsticks" and "iron board" cause I had no curves. You need to see a specialist doctor like someone else here recommended. You need to have a check up and see what's up. Two things that help you gain weight: appropiate food and appropiate sleep. There are also some pills which increase your appetite. I took those for a while and gained weight. Nowadays I have a very normal weight.

O cool thanks for the info, I didn't know that sleep had anything to do with it:O
 

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