sunshinemisa
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Hi everyone! I guess I just want to ask for some opinions on this subject.
About a year ago I quit on the spot from a very bad job. I am very proud of this action as before this I would have stayed and complained and would have been very miserable. At the same time I re-joined a club that I was away from due to my workaholicness (not a word I know lol)
These people I grew up with and I considered friends. I stopped going due to a better job and better pay but it seemed that everyone at the time were upset about it, but didn't say anything.
At this club I was a student and then volunteered to be a teacher. But, now that I'm back, it just seems like I'm not wanted although some people keep saying that they are glad that I'm back.
From last July to October, I couldn't sit or walk for long due to sciattica (sorry for the bad spelling) I'm doing better now but, can't drive long distances yet. Anyhow, during this time of severe bordom, I had alot of time to think. And as I looked back I started to really see people for who they really are. Mostly it was the people at this club that I re-joined but, even my husband's friends I saw them with their true colours.
I miss having friends but, I like being alone too. I want to make new friends but, I see how people make snap judgements and then I wonder if I really want to be friends with people like that.
Does this make any sense? Let me know what you think.
Sorry for the long story.
About a year ago I quit on the spot from a very bad job. I am very proud of this action as before this I would have stayed and complained and would have been very miserable. At the same time I re-joined a club that I was away from due to my workaholicness (not a word I know lol)
These people I grew up with and I considered friends. I stopped going due to a better job and better pay but it seemed that everyone at the time were upset about it, but didn't say anything.
At this club I was a student and then volunteered to be a teacher. But, now that I'm back, it just seems like I'm not wanted although some people keep saying that they are glad that I'm back.
From last July to October, I couldn't sit or walk for long due to sciattica (sorry for the bad spelling) I'm doing better now but, can't drive long distances yet. Anyhow, during this time of severe bordom, I had alot of time to think. And as I looked back I started to really see people for who they really are. Mostly it was the people at this club that I re-joined but, even my husband's friends I saw them with their true colours.
I miss having friends but, I like being alone too. I want to make new friends but, I see how people make snap judgements and then I wonder if I really want to be friends with people like that.
Does this make any sense? Let me know what you think.
Sorry for the long story.