cool_breeze
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In various studies the lifetime average number of sexual partners is about 7. Sometimes 8 or 9. These are usually American studies. I think the worldwide average is 10.5.
Durex claims the average is 19.3 in China. That one was internet based and probably wrong. Lots of Chinese people don't even have internet and it is thought that people were not taking the survey seriously. Then yet other studies have put large countries like China and India at about 3 or 4 average sexual partners each. Durex even has its own studies that puts China at 3.
There are a lot of unreliable factors...lying, bad memory, internet based tests vs. in person vs. phone vs. some kind of written form. I bet the overall world average is somewhere between 7-10.
I don't know, I guess I feel like the modern world is sex obsessed. 7 seems ok. That leaves room to experiment a few times, have a few relationships, then maybe end w/ a marriage.
I'm not a prude at all, actually I feel like I'm more sexual than most people. I hear all these stupid stories about guys who can't get erections, or hardly last very long, or the girl just lays there, or people talk about how they "aren't proud of it" when recalling things in their sexual background. A lot of people don't even do oral, just a few minutes of slutty banging. To me these kinds of stories don't sound very special at all. A few minutes of bad sex, wow. I guess I'm a quality over quantity guy. Those kinds of stories don't sound like worthwhile encounters.
In general I don't really like sluts. It usually makes me like a girl less if I know she's been with a bunch of people. If a girl just gives her body away easily then it seems like she doesn't think sex is very important.
I love getting laid but it seems you can hardly even turn on the evening news without hearing all these stories about sex. The statistics help a little. Maybe overall people are talking about it more than they're actually doing it. I think sex is great and natural and normal. I'm just kind of tired of being bombarded with slutty attitudes in the world these days.
What do you guys think?
Durex claims the average is 19.3 in China. That one was internet based and probably wrong. Lots of Chinese people don't even have internet and it is thought that people were not taking the survey seriously. Then yet other studies have put large countries like China and India at about 3 or 4 average sexual partners each. Durex even has its own studies that puts China at 3.
There are a lot of unreliable factors...lying, bad memory, internet based tests vs. in person vs. phone vs. some kind of written form. I bet the overall world average is somewhere between 7-10.
I don't know, I guess I feel like the modern world is sex obsessed. 7 seems ok. That leaves room to experiment a few times, have a few relationships, then maybe end w/ a marriage.
I'm not a prude at all, actually I feel like I'm more sexual than most people. I hear all these stupid stories about guys who can't get erections, or hardly last very long, or the girl just lays there, or people talk about how they "aren't proud of it" when recalling things in their sexual background. A lot of people don't even do oral, just a few minutes of slutty banging. To me these kinds of stories don't sound very special at all. A few minutes of bad sex, wow. I guess I'm a quality over quantity guy. Those kinds of stories don't sound like worthwhile encounters.
In general I don't really like sluts. It usually makes me like a girl less if I know she's been with a bunch of people. If a girl just gives her body away easily then it seems like she doesn't think sex is very important.
I love getting laid but it seems you can hardly even turn on the evening news without hearing all these stories about sex. The statistics help a little. Maybe overall people are talking about it more than they're actually doing it. I think sex is great and natural and normal. I'm just kind of tired of being bombarded with slutty attitudes in the world these days.
What do you guys think?