Boreal
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What's been your experience seeking friends through shared interests compared to seeking friends who share things like your religion, lifestyle, etc?
I've had some success engaging people who are already connected to me in some way, such as being niche members of the same umbrella community who have similar problems or worldviews.
I've often found that when I join interest groups, my approach is completely different and I don't relate to them at all. People who enjoy writing will most likely enjoy novels or poetry and be feedback-oriented, while I enjoy short stories and am determined to keep the addiction to attention out of my life. People who enjoy gaming will most likely enjoy high-end graphics, popular titles, or competitive gaming, while I enjoy small indie titles and revisiting 80's and 90's favorites.
A family member passed me some pamphlets for a geek gathering downtown that they thought I might enjoy, but I'm unsure if I want to attend or not. Since I have free time this summer I might do better to join a group with a practical purpose like learning a new language or discussing common ground.
I've had some success engaging people who are already connected to me in some way, such as being niche members of the same umbrella community who have similar problems or worldviews.
I've often found that when I join interest groups, my approach is completely different and I don't relate to them at all. People who enjoy writing will most likely enjoy novels or poetry and be feedback-oriented, while I enjoy short stories and am determined to keep the addiction to attention out of my life. People who enjoy gaming will most likely enjoy high-end graphics, popular titles, or competitive gaming, while I enjoy small indie titles and revisiting 80's and 90's favorites.
A family member passed me some pamphlets for a geek gathering downtown that they thought I might enjoy, but I'm unsure if I want to attend or not. Since I have free time this summer I might do better to join a group with a practical purpose like learning a new language or discussing common ground.