Innerpeace
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In my earlier thread I mentioned i'm going crazy over this girl at work. I've liked her for over a year at work now and I may be getting fired soon and i'm worried I'll miss my chance to ever ask her out and will never see her again and it will make me go crazy.
she added me to facebook a couple months ago but I can't ask her out on facebook if I get fired.
Anyways I see her only once a week and tomorrow I get to see her at work. Its hard finding her alone though to talk to her, I can't ask her out with other people around so I don't know what to do. plus i get extremely nervous around her like sometimes I go red and get all hot and sweaty when I see her.
I'm unsure of whether she likes me or not so i'm really scared. the only clue I have that she likes me is that when we see each other she gives me a really big smile and looks really happy and she doesn't do this with other people.
however on facebook when she added me I told her I miss seeing her at work but I don't know if that was clear enough for her to know i like her. I assume she knows.
signs she may not like me is that since that facebook things she has largely been ignoring me, like not coming to me all the time like she used to and sometimes walking by me and not acknowledging me but then sometimes she starts walking past me and smiling again .
she seems shy but I don't know i'm confused.
I once asked her to come to lunch with me (a drive to pizza place) at work during lunch and she was like "do I have to come?"
and I said no don't have to but if you want to and she said okay don't want to.
but i have a feeling that she likes me I can't describe it but I could be wrong and i'm going nutz.
also now i'm scared I may get fired in the near future and I will get really depressed if I don't see her again because I really like her and feel like she may like me aswell. I catch her looking at me sometimes from a distance.
she's a cashier so I can't just walk up to her whenever and talk to her at my work. I'm thinking of when I get a chance like if she walks past me and smiles say hey come back here for a second I want to talk to you and ask her if she wants to come out with me next weekend like to the beach?
I really don't know, but i'm scared tomorrow I may not get a chance to get her alone or she may ignore me again and I won't have a chance to ask her. I'm wondering if I should go up to her when she is at cash (sometimes I have to hand her somthing like a receipt) and tell her hey I want to talk to you later, but i'd get really nervous saying that and that may make her uncomfortable?
what do you guys think? i'm really shy and get panick attacks because of this and it's driving me crazy. I don't want to get fired soon and not ever see her again and wonder forever what if.
she added me to facebook a couple months ago but I can't ask her out on facebook if I get fired.
Anyways I see her only once a week and tomorrow I get to see her at work. Its hard finding her alone though to talk to her, I can't ask her out with other people around so I don't know what to do. plus i get extremely nervous around her like sometimes I go red and get all hot and sweaty when I see her.
I'm unsure of whether she likes me or not so i'm really scared. the only clue I have that she likes me is that when we see each other she gives me a really big smile and looks really happy and she doesn't do this with other people.
however on facebook when she added me I told her I miss seeing her at work but I don't know if that was clear enough for her to know i like her. I assume she knows.
signs she may not like me is that since that facebook things she has largely been ignoring me, like not coming to me all the time like she used to and sometimes walking by me and not acknowledging me but then sometimes she starts walking past me and smiling again .
she seems shy but I don't know i'm confused.
I once asked her to come to lunch with me (a drive to pizza place) at work during lunch and she was like "do I have to come?"
and I said no don't have to but if you want to and she said okay don't want to.
but i have a feeling that she likes me I can't describe it but I could be wrong and i'm going nutz.
also now i'm scared I may get fired in the near future and I will get really depressed if I don't see her again because I really like her and feel like she may like me aswell. I catch her looking at me sometimes from a distance.
she's a cashier so I can't just walk up to her whenever and talk to her at my work. I'm thinking of when I get a chance like if she walks past me and smiles say hey come back here for a second I want to talk to you and ask her if she wants to come out with me next weekend like to the beach?
I really don't know, but i'm scared tomorrow I may not get a chance to get her alone or she may ignore me again and I won't have a chance to ask her. I'm wondering if I should go up to her when she is at cash (sometimes I have to hand her somthing like a receipt) and tell her hey I want to talk to you later, but i'd get really nervous saying that and that may make her uncomfortable?
what do you guys think? i'm really shy and get panick attacks because of this and it's driving me crazy. I don't want to get fired soon and not ever see her again and wonder forever what if.