Maisalwithout
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I got a really unusual situation (then again, maybe not so unusual). I've been with my girlfriend (let's call her L) since early August year. We got along great, went places, and had good times together.
This is the problem with her, the day after we had a date and I just wanted to talk to her, I tried to call L. Dialed the number, got her voicemail. I left a message, but she didn't call me back. I tried calling two days later, same thing. I waited another week, then sent her an e-mail; she didn't write back. Sent another e-mail a week later, still didn't get a response. At that point, I assumed that was L's way of breaking up with me, so I thought: "oh well, if she's gone, she's gone". Obviously, I was a little upset, but you can't change the way someone feels about you.
When she did contact me after a while, she said it was because she lost her phone and was dealing with some problems...well the tone of writing was quite matter-of-fact and unapologetic, acting like nothing is wrong. This raises a question. How is it possible to lose someone's number and internet access? Even if she didn't have a computer at home, she could have used one at her work or the library. And real problem is that this happens more often than I expected. Relationships are about reliability and disappearing without notice is simply wrong. Now I'm considering breaking up with L.
What do you guys think I should do about this? I mean, I know what she did was not right but we still had some great times together and I feel she's the first one who truly in her heart appreciated me for who I am. What should I do? Any advice/input will help.
This is the problem with her, the day after we had a date and I just wanted to talk to her, I tried to call L. Dialed the number, got her voicemail. I left a message, but she didn't call me back. I tried calling two days later, same thing. I waited another week, then sent her an e-mail; she didn't write back. Sent another e-mail a week later, still didn't get a response. At that point, I assumed that was L's way of breaking up with me, so I thought: "oh well, if she's gone, she's gone". Obviously, I was a little upset, but you can't change the way someone feels about you.
When she did contact me after a while, she said it was because she lost her phone and was dealing with some problems...well the tone of writing was quite matter-of-fact and unapologetic, acting like nothing is wrong. This raises a question. How is it possible to lose someone's number and internet access? Even if she didn't have a computer at home, she could have used one at her work or the library. And real problem is that this happens more often than I expected. Relationships are about reliability and disappearing without notice is simply wrong. Now I'm considering breaking up with L.
What do you guys think I should do about this? I mean, I know what she did was not right but we still had some great times together and I feel she's the first one who truly in her heart appreciated me for who I am. What should I do? Any advice/input will help.