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Hi y'all.
I was going through some threads and some of you really feel as if theres no way u'd find a special someone.
I know for a fact that there is someone for everyone!
Sure, it might seem or be hard to find.
But it might not be as impossible as you think.
People who knew me in real life or.. thought who knew me,
would probably laugh and say "how would u know"
For me when i was like 16 until 18 or so it all went easy.
I guess i was one of the populair guys on school.
I was until i chose not to be.
Being part of a group where u shut others out is very much against my believes.
I remember that i liked this girl who was always bullied around.
I don't know why or if i started out liking her because i felt for her, i just did.
When i started to hang out with her i noticed that she was most likely the nicest person i had ever met.
She was pretty, smart, funny..
Somehow everyone had something against her.
The fact that i hung out with her changed how people would look at me.
And one morning when i came to school my 'friends' told me i had a choice to make,
Her or them and as they said, everyone there.
I was bullied myself, before i ended up with the more populair crowd and i really didn't wanna go back to that.
Honestly.. i was just scared of what would happen if i chose her.
So i chose them.
When she walked into our class she came sit next to me.
Some people started saying things like how pathetic she was thinking she got to hang out with me (i'm really not that special) and i said nothing to defend her.
She tried not to cry and asked me what was going on and i told her something like, "seriously?.. u really thought i liked u? I just thought u were sad and i really don't know why i should care"
She stood up and left.
It was the worste i had ever done to anyone.
I realised the next day what i had not only done to her, but to myself as well.
If u have a choice, 1 true friend or 100 'so called' friends..
I liked her as more than a friend.
I was so angry at myself and at the people who kept pushing me to do what i did.
So there was only one right thing to do.
The next day at school when i came in class i told my 'friends'
that i rather had no friends at all than to be someone i'm not just to fit in.
The girl i liked obviously didn't like me one bit at that time and now it was her turn to stay silent.
She was right to ignore me, i would've if i could.
From that day on, she wasn't bullied as much.
Most were to busy ruining my day.
Yet i was glad that i left the crowd.
Finding a girl was ehmmm impossible now though..
At least that's how it felt.
But after i left school and left behind a reputation that i never wanted in the first place,
I started talking to complete strangers.
Guys didn't like me much and i didn't like them.
They talk about women the way women talk about shoes.
And the shoes get a lot more respect than women did.
I guess i am not a 'real' man or, by definition.
In my eyes a real man is a man who doesn't pretend to be more than he is.
A real man shouldn't have to drink, fight or talk women as if they are just a dirty fantasy or a one night stand.
But that aside.
I chose to just be exactly who i was.
If i was bullied because of that i kept telling myself that the only way to look at myself in the mirror with at least a little pride, was if i wouldn't change who i was just to fit in.
Eventually it would mean u'd have to play a role and that people would like u for all the wrong reasons.
I started talking to different people.
Some liked me and some weren't interested.
The ones that did like me, liked me for me.
I met this beautiful girl who liked me for me, we got married 2 years ago after being together for 10 years.
She is my wife, my best friend and my soulmate.
I guess that's the thing u should hold on to.
To always be exactly who u are.
A lot of people if they'd approach someone to flirt with feel as if it's akward or that they should have a smart opening line or something interesting to talk about.
For those people, just be you? It might suprise ya and it may not be the first girl or guy that u approach, but it will pay off.
And when it does, then u know she or he likes u exactly for who you are and for all the right reasons.
There is someone out there for you.
And you are more than worth having a special someone!
Take care
-Jason
I was going through some threads and some of you really feel as if theres no way u'd find a special someone.
I know for a fact that there is someone for everyone!
Sure, it might seem or be hard to find.
But it might not be as impossible as you think.
People who knew me in real life or.. thought who knew me,
would probably laugh and say "how would u know"
For me when i was like 16 until 18 or so it all went easy.
I guess i was one of the populair guys on school.
I was until i chose not to be.
Being part of a group where u shut others out is very much against my believes.
I remember that i liked this girl who was always bullied around.
I don't know why or if i started out liking her because i felt for her, i just did.
When i started to hang out with her i noticed that she was most likely the nicest person i had ever met.
She was pretty, smart, funny..
Somehow everyone had something against her.
The fact that i hung out with her changed how people would look at me.
And one morning when i came to school my 'friends' told me i had a choice to make,
Her or them and as they said, everyone there.
I was bullied myself, before i ended up with the more populair crowd and i really didn't wanna go back to that.
Honestly.. i was just scared of what would happen if i chose her.
So i chose them.
When she walked into our class she came sit next to me.
Some people started saying things like how pathetic she was thinking she got to hang out with me (i'm really not that special) and i said nothing to defend her.
She tried not to cry and asked me what was going on and i told her something like, "seriously?.. u really thought i liked u? I just thought u were sad and i really don't know why i should care"
She stood up and left.
It was the worste i had ever done to anyone.
I realised the next day what i had not only done to her, but to myself as well.
If u have a choice, 1 true friend or 100 'so called' friends..
I liked her as more than a friend.
I was so angry at myself and at the people who kept pushing me to do what i did.
So there was only one right thing to do.
The next day at school when i came in class i told my 'friends'
that i rather had no friends at all than to be someone i'm not just to fit in.
The girl i liked obviously didn't like me one bit at that time and now it was her turn to stay silent.
She was right to ignore me, i would've if i could.
From that day on, she wasn't bullied as much.
Most were to busy ruining my day.
Yet i was glad that i left the crowd.
Finding a girl was ehmmm impossible now though..
At least that's how it felt.
But after i left school and left behind a reputation that i never wanted in the first place,
I started talking to complete strangers.
Guys didn't like me much and i didn't like them.
They talk about women the way women talk about shoes.
And the shoes get a lot more respect than women did.
I guess i am not a 'real' man or, by definition.
In my eyes a real man is a man who doesn't pretend to be more than he is.
A real man shouldn't have to drink, fight or talk women as if they are just a dirty fantasy or a one night stand.
But that aside.
I chose to just be exactly who i was.
If i was bullied because of that i kept telling myself that the only way to look at myself in the mirror with at least a little pride, was if i wouldn't change who i was just to fit in.
Eventually it would mean u'd have to play a role and that people would like u for all the wrong reasons.
I started talking to different people.
Some liked me and some weren't interested.
The ones that did like me, liked me for me.
I met this beautiful girl who liked me for me, we got married 2 years ago after being together for 10 years.
She is my wife, my best friend and my soulmate.
I guess that's the thing u should hold on to.
To always be exactly who u are.
A lot of people if they'd approach someone to flirt with feel as if it's akward or that they should have a smart opening line or something interesting to talk about.
For those people, just be you? It might suprise ya and it may not be the first girl or guy that u approach, but it will pay off.
And when it does, then u know she or he likes u exactly for who you are and for all the right reasons.
There is someone out there for you.
And you are more than worth having a special someone!
Take care
-Jason